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Look at this foolishness and chime in this is a serious topic

Look at this foolishness and chime in this is a serious topic

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massgirl

MandyМама дочки (5 лет)

He absolutely needs to leave before he those kids realize the resent that has built up...this is exactly what happens when women give men an ultimatum or trap them...do yourself a favor ladies if a guy says he doesn't want kids respect his decision and move on. I only feel sorry for the children in this situation. They don't deserve this and sadly I believe their mother is to blame not him

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cilla28

cillaМама троих детей

Exactly my thoughts

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coffeebean

🌸GoodVibeTribe🌸Мама троих детей

Wow. I’m literally speechless. I have no idea what to even say to this. Idk how I’d respond if I found out my husband felt this way. My lorddddd. 😳

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cilla28

cillaМама троих детей

Oh I listen but I’m not god so killing a child is out of the question I would simply move on and give them a chance to get their self in order

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somebodysmama2

Maya 🐝Мама двоих (младенец)

I would never give someone an ultimatum. That’s something that should have been discussed before they were married. Why tf did contribute to making 3 kids if he knew that’s not what he wanted? I hope he gets his mental health in check.

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cilla28

cillaМама троих детей

And soon this is just another sick example of why marriage ain’t for everybody cause not all think like us some men be in it just for the looks

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somebodysmama2

Maya 🐝Мама двоих (младенец)

@cilla28, I don’t even think it’s the marriage. He could be a great husband to someone else. He wasn’t honest with himself. Not everyone should be a parent and when someone says they don’t want children we should listen.

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del_1579025334_lorrinleigh

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Damn. That’s sad. I feel bad for everyone. What a terrible situation. But if he truly knew he didn’t want that then he shouldn’t have put himself, his wife and those kids there. Can’t hide your feelings forever.

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cilla28

cillaМама троих детей

Exactly

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del_1579025334_lorrinleigh

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@cilla28, He should have been honest from the beginning. It’s going to be terrible when they all find out he feels that way. I would be furious. She could have had children with someone who really wanted that life but instead he wasn’t man enough to be honest when she gave him the “ultimatum”.

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cilla28

cillaМама троих детей

@lorrinleigh, exactly my point why lay with someone and then regret to put come smh

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cilla28

cillaМама троих детей

If you not ready for kids why have unprotected sex honestly

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massgirl

MandyМама дочки (5 лет)

I feel like this is WAY deeper than just going around and spreading his seed.

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cilla28

cillaМама троих детей

@massgirl, exactly

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cilla28

cillaМама троих детей

Are you serious that has nothing to do with the mom but souly him cause he chose to lay with her knowing kids were a possibility so again what or why is it ok for man to lay with woman with no regards or acknowledgement of the consequences behind having sex unprotected yes she should have left instead of continue the relationship but he has that option of preventing the situation all I see is a woman deal with her out come and a man running from it mentally knowing he could have changed it ijs

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cilla28

cillaМама троих детей

@massgirl, but again that’s no excuse he could leave cause honestly they gone end up on the news lord for bid he hurts them kids out of disappointment and she may have not give him a ultimatum she could have just felt with it and kept it moving cause I my self experience this and I quickly step on out the door cause who am I to play god this is something as a woman you have to except and his actions is not a thing to accept

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kalixta

KalixtaМама дочки (1 год)

@massgirl, Yes especially if he has already attempted suicide.

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massgirl

MandyМама дочки (5 лет)

@kalixta I hope he tells his psychologist about these feelings but he probably won't

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kalixta

KalixtaМама дочки (1 год)

Unpopular Opinion:: This is extremely honest and I applaud him trying to do the right thing but this will not end well for anyone in that family. Not everyone is cut out for parenthood and I think it’s wrong when women/men get into a relationship knowing their SO doesn’t want kids and expects them to change over time. I actually feel bad for him. I wonder if his wife knows?? & If you found out your SO felt like this would you want to even stay in that relationship??

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cilla28

cillaМама троих детей

No I would leave period

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massgirl

MandyМама дочки (5 лет)

I would leave immediately if I found out my husband had these thoughts. It's not healthy emotionally. God forbid he actually hurts himself or worse the rest of them.

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cilla28

cillaМама троих детей

@massgirl, exactly when it’s simple all he had to do is take steps to prevent this and protect his self and now

It’s done ✅ so why you complaining you slept with her and kept sleeping with

Her it’s not her fault it’s their fault and if you don’t want something why contribute to it when all you have to do is leave

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massgirl

MandyМама дочки (5 лет)

He absolutely needs to leave before he those kids realize the resent that has built up...this is exactly what happens when women give men an ultimatum or trap them...do yourself a favor ladies if a guy says he doesn't want kids respect his decision and move on. I only feel sorry for the children in this situation. They don't deserve this and sadly I believe their mother is to blame not him

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cilla28

cillaМама троих детей

Exactly my point it’s a hurtful feeling and yet some many of us carry this hurt and endure it cause of the men we choose to love I thang god I’m strong and know when it’s time to go

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