So my husband basically said he would want a divorce 🤷🏻♀️. I was just thinking we needed a little separation till he came to his senses that me and the boys come first. But I guess it’s whatever. He said people don’t do separations?
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Why not get your own place? Sounds like that could solve a lot of problems.
@massmomma16, we were on our own? Than his dad lost his job so we had to move in with them
@ryan_isaac_mom14, that’s sad to me. I don’t see it as your husband or your family’s responsibility to help them when the Dad lost his job. Which ultimately has come to this. I think y’all should definitely have a serious talk. And plan to get your own home together again...if it goes well.
@massmomma16, I’ve been telling him. But he doesn’t listen
So who cares if he won’t divorce, say bye and walk away if that’s what Y’all need and it’s what’s best! My husband has told me if we ever spilt he will never divorce me and I said whatever I don’t plan on getting remarried or anything ever if that happens my grandparents spilt years and years ago and there still “married” so she could stay in the states
@madmummy, it’s ok no problem 😊. And yeah I know
@ryan_isaac_mom14, I’m here if you wanna talk or just vent. I’ve been there minus kids at the time but it still isn’t easy walking away
That's ironic because in some states it is required to go through a separation period before you are divorced. Have you guys tried counseling?
I know It’s weird lol. And no we are actually on really great terms. My issue are his mother and father
Also people DO seperate before deciding to divorce, literally ALL the time. That's just not what HE wants to do!
It literally is Bullshit. I’m trying to be as civil as possible. And haha I know they do. My parents did it. Like I don’t understand MEN sometimes 🤷🏻♀️
Ok, BYE then.... that's what I'd say! This is SUCH bullshit! WHY is it just his way or NO way?? I'm so sorry Mama! I could not live with someone like that.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
My doctor said I can give baby rice cereal yay !!!! He said good head control !!!!
My son just handed me this…. As an adult I made the decision not to get it and told him why I choose not to. Asked him if he knew anything about COVID or the vaccine and he said no all he knows it’s that it’s out there. At the end I asked him if he wants the vaccine I will sign the form if not we ignore it. He said no thank you 😊.
opinions?
I told Jeff I want to leave. He said that he doesn't love me and I feel the same way about him. However when I asked him if I could keep paying my share of the bills while saving enough to leave he said if I'm going to leave I need to go now. This is what he always does. He says he doesn't want me but when I try to leave he manipulates me.
Wow. That’s pretty shitty. If he’s ready to give up that easy I would start planning your future without him in it. Your just missing out on your own happiness.
I hope things work out for the best!