I need advice on what to do
My mom said she text my daughters dad and he thought it was this girl till my mom told him who it was. So I looked at his phone, it only had texts from Thanksgiving day. But I did see a text from other girl who he used to mess around with before he met me. And still text her once we were talking and getting to know each other. Back then he stopped talking to her and deleted her number (so I thought) after we started dating. This was almost 4 years ago.
How would I bring those things up? Because i went through his phone.
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Guys shouldn’t have to prove anything if they can’t act right on there own cause it’s not worth the stress or a relationship... guys will act for the right one 💯 no reason baby sitting a grown man
We have different opinions on this and you don't fully know the situation because I have met fully explained. Agree to disagree to a point
Blunt. Honest. Up front. 🤷🏽♀️ I’d say uh so what’s up with this situation with my mom texting you and you assuming it’s someone else. Are you focused on us or not.
If he says yes, accept it and move on
If he says no, you don’t have to appreciate his honesty, but if it were me, I’d take my dignity and be the F out!
Cheaters will be Cheaters!!
bitches will be bitches
hoes will be hoes
You have to trust your SO not to cheat if that’s what you expect of them
Here's the important question. Are y'all together or not? Is it a relationship or is it a we're single until you show me blah blah blah? Because of its the latter you can't really be mad he's talking to other women, he's single and can do as he pleases. Why should he follow relationship rules if it's not an actual relationship?
I think y'all both need to just stay separated if you need to put him through a trial yet never had these issues before.
@beetlejuice_beetlejuice_beetlejuice that wasnt why I went through his phone. Read again.
@anicole3285 regardless of why you chose to go through his phone, he is single. You are single. You have no grounds to go through his phone or confront him.
@beetlejuice_beetlejuice_beetlejuice that's where we disagree. Have a good day
I thought you weren't with your daughter's father anymore because he treated you like shit, did I miss something are you two back together?
@anicole3285 clearly he's not getting any better
@mrs.jay__x never had an issue with this kind of things. So not good on another level.
@anicole3285 yeah well.. here's my 2 cents...
the only thing that he's proving is that he still can't be trusted.
You deserve someone so much better, someone who values you and your relationship.
Honestly he is a waste of your time, continue to co-parent with him but just give up on the idea of a romantic relationship with him... he has shown you time and time again that he doesn't value you at all.
@coffeebean that makes sense. I only went through his phone because of what my mom said before accusing. I just don't want him thinking I'm always going through his things when I really don't
But yet none of that should have happened and I deserve to know who lindsay is and why did he delete that text plus why hes texting some female he used to have feelings for years ago
@anicole3285, exactly.. he can think it’s wrong you went through his phone but point is there was apparently something to find in the phone so that’s the issue now. & I would honestly start your conversation out with explaining that so he knows where you originally decided to go through it came from.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:
my baby daddy punched me in my nose twice. All because the phone he has I GAVE IT TO HIM! Its MyOld Phone And he been talking to this girl and so i said give me my phone back! I didnt give it to you for that reason. And i got it and he was trying to take it back and he hit me .
I Still Angry Because I Seen A Text From Another Girl In His Phone But He Said His Homie Uses His Phone To Text Females...BUT WHY ARE YOU LETTING HIM IF HE HAS HIS OWN PHONE ! I'm Not Understanding. The Way He Put It He Sounds Like Hes Telling Me The Truth..SHOULD I TEXT THIS BITCH AND CURSE HER LIFELESS ASS OUT FOR TRYING TO RUIN A REALATIONSHIP????
Personally I would let him go, considering he is still married, dating you and apparently cheating on you. It wouldn't be worth it to keep him around. Let him have a relationship with his children but remove yourself from the equation.