Ugh anyone else have someone in their life who every time you vent about what’s going on in your…

Ugh anyone else have someone in their life who every time you vent about what’s going on in your life they always have had it worse?? My mom is the worst. Like sometimes I just need to vent and talk about things and she ALWAYS come back with “well I did it and it was harder because..” like can’t you ever just say I know it’s hard. But you can do it. Like why do you always have to make me feel awful for struggling