Lisa✨😌
itsshalisa
Lisa✨😌·Мама четверых детей

Ok rant,

I honestly hate to even talk about this because it honestly hurts me for the kids but my first three are from my first marriage. And their father asked for them the week of thanksgiving so that they could spend time with their cousin down in Virginia. That way we could have them for Christmas. He asked me when my oldest goes on thanksgiving break. I tell him and hear nothing at all back from him and they were supposedly leaving this last weekend.

I still haven’t heard anything. It just really upsets me that he would say would thing and not show up for them. I went through this with my own dad and I don’t want them to deal with this heart break.

P.S. this has been going on all year long

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lareina_kk
Kay Kay·Мама четверых детей, беременна

I've been through that before. Also with my father as well. It really hurts the kids. If it keeps happening you have to set rules and boundaries for his father.

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lareina_kk
Kay Kay·Мама четверых детей, беременна

Hugs😊 also I go to Raleigh all the time. If you ever want to meet at as Marbles or the museum just let me know😊

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itsshalisa
Lisa✨😌·Мама четверых детей

@lareina_kk, yes! That would be fun! I’ll be sending you a chat 🤗❤️

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___tae
muvaa.of.3 🌸·Мама троих детей

Aww man that’s sucks. Sorry you & your kids are going through this 😪

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itsshalisa
Lisa✨😌·Мама четверых детей

Thank you. I’m sure we’ll eventually find a way to cope and handle these types of situations

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al093

Ugh I know how it feels. Moving forward do not tell them when he plans to “pick them up” and ask him not to tell them either....it hurts so much but they will live. Do something exciting to get their mind off of it

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itsshalisa
Lisa✨😌·Мама четверых детей

Yes definitely. Lesson learned for sure.

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