Is it the womans responsibility to clean everything at home, with little to no help from hubby, and take care of the children while hubby does as he pleases (especially on weekends when there is no work)
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My husband wants to sit in front of the TV on the weekends but I make him pitch in. I go to the gym and go grocery shopping by myself. I let laundry and dishes pile up so he’s forced to help out. I tell him I’m not a maid and I’m not going spend all my time cleaning. I need a life too. I’m already with the kids all week long. I never get to watch TV.
Yeah I defiantly don’t want to spend all my time cleaning either
@e_elliana408, lol yupp so annoying and I work weekends at night😭
No! My man and I split it 50/50 he is very ocd about cleaning which is good and he helps with the children the min he steps in the door after work.
That’s so wonderful to hear! Keeps a lady hopeful
@e_elliana408, I also like how you worded that once he steps foot through that door that he’s hands on deck. That’s is great. It’s like that for me sometimes. It’s the weekend that pissed me off he has so many errands. I get handling one or two errands by himself for the day but I wish he was mindful of the many hours I wait at home trying to entertain 4 children. All 4 kids have needs
This isn’t 1930’s “everyone who lives in the home has a responsibility to maintain it ,no one is anyone’s maid”takes 2 people to make a child as well “do you ever get you time ,or run errands with out your children “ Men treat us how we allow “Speak up for yourself ❤️
👏🏽 yeah I feel that way but he’s a great talker and can twist all my words and make it seem like I’m not great full and no I hardly ever run errands by myself I usually have all kids or 2 of them. And thank you for the support 💞
@e_elliana408, luckily I am a clean freak and my man never has issues sweeping either or mopping we both work full time out of the house ,if he cooks I’ll wash the dishes vice versa, he clean s sure not as perfection as I organize things but,it’s helpful “I also by 4th grade taught my older 2 son’s how to do their own laundry ,1 day they will be someone’s husband or father their wife will thank me
@sherrynygirl, right right...so very true! Good reasonable age to teach the kids 👌🏽
Does being a Sahm change any of that though? 🤔 is it owed, you know with my youngest I can hardly fine time to do much for me. I barely find time to comb my hair or shower
Lol no. I'd move back in with my parents before letting some dickbag treat my ass like a maid and babysitter.
Yes and if I dare ask for more assistance I’m a complainer and a whiner 😏
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Hubby just left for work we on better term this morning we talked every thing over he say he sorry about talking to me that way and don’t want to loose his family over something stupid
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Hubby's housework
What kinda housework or chores does your hubby do?
@e_elliana408, they sell great organizers as well helps with toys ,anything else that can’t be hung up on a hanger or put in a toy box,shelf or cubbyhole should be thrown out helps eliminate clutter too 👌or make your husband a chart ,since men are visual hahha trash, bathroom cleaning,change bed sheets weekly&laundry&fold,sweep,mop,organize kid’s area helps too so he will see how much your doing alone always and when you have errands to run “shit sometimes taking kids makes us slower , to get them done