#RANT #Venting y’all I’m trying my hardest not to be disrespectful towards my mother but she doesn’t…
#RANT #Venting
y’all I’m trying my hardest not to be disrespectful towards my mother but she doesn’t understand NO!!!
my parents go to Florida every year for thanksgiving and she’s be badgering me about taking my daughter and I have said NO on every occasion. my daughter is too small to be away from me this soon and my daughter doesn’t even like when I leave the room. to make matters even worse I found out my mom has been sneaking sending pictures to people in her family after I told her not to and she already told them she was bringing my daughter. IM FED UP. WTTFFFF am I supposed to do???
JenX·
You have to stick to your boundaries. That's your baby. If you give her an inch she will take over.
VyKiita ··
Мама дочки-младенца
She already tries to tell me what to do all the time. It’s so annoying
BunsInMyOven·
My mom and I had the picture battle early on. Stick to your guns and respectfully reiterate what you expect of her. Just try to remember she’s s obviously super excited but also be firm with her about your boundaries
JenX··
Agreed. I told everyone in my family my daughter has a right to digital privacy, her identity is her own, and that once pictures are out there they never go away. I don't need a bunch of people telling me my kid is cute at the expense of her privacy. That's not my decision to make. My family respects it. I can tell they think I am overreacting, but they respect it.
BunsInMyOven··
it’s a TOTALLY different world now. People think they can send around pics wherever. When we found out my MIL sent pics of my girls to her coworkers I was pretty POd bc I have no idea who those people are or if they will resend them out. My mom recently was sending pics she took while w my girls to her family members and I told her “mom, that’s not fair to my girls. They’re in their own personal setting YOU get to see them not everyone else”
BunsInMyOven·
Do you live with your mom ?
BunsInMyOven··
@sweetladykii, well your house your rules. Tell them you love them but that if they don’t respect your boundaries it will strain the relationship and cause issues. I would say you can tell them that if they refuse to respect your boundaries, they won’t be able to see her but that’s a bit impossible
VyKiita ··
Мама дочки-младенца
it’s just my mom, my dad is very private person. Even after I told my mom not to tell anyone I was pregnant she told her family before I did.
BunsInMyOven··
oh no! Oh it would have hit the fan! I’m sorry. Stick to your guns
Lacey Davis ·
Tell her nooo again.. if she wants respects shes gonna have to respect your that babies mom not her u decide what goes down in her life. Tell her u take her and u will be filing report bc thats called kidnapping.
Your Worst Nightmare 😘·
Block her in every way and loose communication