anicole3285
Amanda
Well my boyfriend of 4 years is technically married but been seperated for almost 6 years. He told me and my assumption was when i met him after we got serious or he knew he wanted to be with me forever hed go get a divorce. My assumption was wrong. He tryed when i was pregnant with my 2nd kid. But ran out of money to finish the paper work. Its been 2 1/2 years and he hasnt tryed again. How would you bring that up to him?? I mean whdn we argue it tends to be bad sometimes and i have told him that im nkt even fully committed to him because hes comitted to another woman. And how i think its disrespectful how he hasnt been proactive with getting a divorce nomatter if he doesnt think about him being "married" or not because its been zo long. He is and knows it. I honestly dont think the word married or wife means anything to him. Because hes married but seperated for so long that it slips his mind and he calls me his wife to other people when im not. I just hate having these convos wifh him. Or anybody. I dont even know how to just bring something up and talk about it when its so serious. At least to me it is. Weather we are ready for marriage or not which we arent. Its the principal of it all
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Walk up to him, look him dead in the eye, and say "hey asshat, go get your divorce settled. Also, we should go see a movie next week."
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I got a divorce at age 21 manyyyy yrs ago ,I figured it out myself went to the court house got the package,had to notarize the packet ,put an ad in the paper think was 6wks and granted full custody of my son “didn’t even need his father’s signature! Depending on your income too the state has great programs to help you “So no more excuses for him NOT to do it “people treat us How We allow &tell his ass How you feel don’t hold it in !
Lord.....why do you keep having babies with him? Seriously. And the fact you don’t know how to bring this up to him 🤦♀️ says a lot
Right!? Like I would’ve never had children til it was done 🤦🏾♀️
@kx2girlmommy I'm literally shocked he's still married...this along the other things that he has done. @anicole3285 please just move on this relationship is not healthy for you but especially your kids. I've been divorced in Florida...it costs almost nothing if there are no attorneys involved. There's no excuse.
@massgirl ill let him know and see what he says. I am still trying to figure things out when it comes to financially be able to do things with 3 kids alone
Give him a dead line if he doesn’t meet it tell him duces life’s too short too fuck with half ass ...ppl plus sounds like he’s a broke ass already that’s not good for business
You probably should’ve had this convos a couple times before y’all started procreating 🤦🏾♀️ just straight up tell him to finalize his divorce or you’re done. Tell him you don’t want to be with a married man anymore 🤷🏾♀️
Yea if we were planning
@anicole3285 planning to get married or not- it will always be in the back of your mind. The longer it has been will make it easier on him (and can be less costly since they have no assets together.) Do they have children?
Walk up to him, look him dead in the eye, and say "hey asshat, go get your divorce settled. Also, we should go see a movie next week."
My mom didn’t have money for divorce she filled paper work was able to get the fee waived one the paper work was finalized my dad had 30 days to dispute or take her to court after 30 days the divorce was finalized.
There’s ways to get it done little to no cost chances are hun that divorce isn’t coming anytime soon.
Yea i have told him that also that there are multiple ways to get a divorce. Even though ive never been married before, i know after ive looked up some things
And yea i know. Tough conversation is always hard