Well my boyfriend of 4 years is technically married but been seperated for almost 6 years. He told me and my assumption was when i met him after we got serious or he knew he wanted to be with me forever hed go get a divorce. My assumption was wrong. He tryed when i was pregnant with my 2nd kid. But ran out of money to finish the paper work. Its been 2 1/2 years and he hasnt tryed again. How would you bring that up to him?? I mean whdn we argue it tends to be bad sometimes and i have told him that im nkt even fully committed to him because hes comitted to another woman. And how i think its disrespectful how he hasnt been proactive with getting a divorce nomatter if he doesnt think about him being "married" or not because its been zo long. He is and knows it. I honestly dont think the word married or wife means anything to him. Because hes married but seperated for so long that it slips his mind and he calls me his wife to other people when im not. I just hate having these convos wifh him. Or anybody. I dont even know how to just bring something up and talk about it when its so serious. At least to me it is. Weather we are ready for marriage or not which we arent. Its the principal of it all