if your baby daddy has children with other women HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH IT??? (if you are not OR have you ever been in this situation DO NOT REPLY TO THIS POST)
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I asked about the other moms, the kids are not the issue.
@sweetladykii it sounded more like a question about the kids, but when it comes to the women, just ignore them and let him deal with it unless it somehow needs to involve you which probably wont happen much if at all
@sweetladykii my boyfriend has kids with 2 other women and I just dont pay any attention to them have anything to do with them, I tried talking to one of them once but my boyfriend didn't want us to talk so... they also live in a different state
my husband has two daughters with different woman and one i get along and his daughter loves me the other mom nope we don't get along she try's to cause problems between me and my husband she's obsessed with him she can't get over the past and he doesn't see his other daughter she keeps her away from him he's never met her it's a lot and i have told her to let go of things and let him meet his daughter she doesn't care she just wants her child support money
it's easy cos most of his kids are grown and the two that aren't, ones mom keep her distance and the others mom is barely in contact maybe twice a year I hear of her. when he complains about his baby mothers I just ignore him because they cool with me sooo. as for the one who's mom isn't around she's at a difficult age (11) so I just be cordial and try not to get too involved with her because I dont like the way she treats her baby sister (my 1 year old)
My husband has a daughter I’ve been in her life for almost 8 year and both her and the mother are extremely disrespectful the child is very cruel and mean towards her half siblings and the mother can’t accept the fact that we are married
I dated a man a year ago but the name of Joe he had a 10 year old daughter he was such an awkward situation I only met his baby mama wants and we had such eyes well she did I felt so uncomfortable after that. Hope everything goes well Mama
It's nothing to deal with in my situation! Everything just works. There's open communication and everyone gets along. Their son is our son. I've been in his life since he was two, so everything is so organic. He's my son and I don't say "step" because I don't want him feeling any different from my biological kids. He's mine.
I love it , they accepted me as they step mother and his youngest wants to call.me mom i told them they never have to do that . my son loves his step siblings . i take his daughters out on spa dates and do girly things . we have a great relationship. Now with the mother she kinda has accepted me . she told.me she buying our daughter a newborn gift but it hasn't been easy. Its been close two years so its a working progress . I four children I have accpeted as my own I hope that's what u meant
How did I deal with the fact that he has children with another woman or sharing my time with him and his children or dealing with the other woman? Or what exactly? Just need a little more detail to answer the question
@sweetladykii there's more than one?? Dang! Good luck. Not sure how I'd deal with a messy woman.
@sweetladykii, ohhhh ok. Yea I’ve been there before. It’s not much you can really do besides have clear communication with him about the things you expect from him on his end. Let him know what you desire and expect from him and make them fair and realistic that way there will be no confusion as to the boundaries he should have. You can’t control anything she will do or say obviously but you two can definitely be on the same page. When you two are definitely on the same page then nothing she says or tries to do can affect you. As far as her keeping the kids then if they can’t handle it together then he should pursue legal action to make sure she cannot keep his kids from him. There’s nothing else he can do about that if you two are going to be together other than stand his ground with her as far as seeing his kids and making it known there will be no funny business between them and just making it clear that you and him are staying together. There’s not much you can do about the situation yourself except support him and let him handle it.
I'm not in the situation but just curious are in a relationship with your baby daddy
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You deal with it like they're your own kids if they're young enough but if they're older then you just accept it and let it be