Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
This chick that works with my boyfriend really confessed her love to my man and then went into tears when he rejected her. (Mind you, he works in a kitchen and tells everyone about me and the fact that I’m pregnant and how excited he is to have a son.) Apparently she’s started to cause him problems at work and getting jealous when he talks other females, me included😂 Like this hoe really tried it😩😂🤪
So over this feeling! Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The thing that bothered me was no matter what I said regarding ds I wasn't listened to. I told my mother to sit behind ds if she was going to sit him up on the floor as he hasn't got the whole balance thing down pact but she didn't and then ds falls and starts crying cause he hurt himself, I picked him up and my mother just came and took him off me! I told her he can't forward face yet as he is below the shoulder line in order to forward face but they did anyway. I get it's her first grandchild and she's excited but I never got to share the news about ds's first tooth or his first attempt at crawling to the family because she already done it. Yes I know, I probably sound petty asf! I had to repeatedly ask my mother to take me and ds home as he was tired and close to the over tired stage. On the way home ds fell asleep, luckily I was sitting beside him and looked at him cause he had fallen asleep and had his head facing down so I quickly grabbed his head and held it up till we got home.
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Does he feel like he’s never had a bond with him or something?
Janni··
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года)
Yeah like he has told me in the past that he doesn’t feel anything for him that he has tried but he just cant
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well that’s probably why then .. some parents jst don’t have a bond with certaint kids which is sad Bkz that’s your seed idk how someone can not have a bond with their own child but I guess it happens a lot but honestly if he doesn’t wanna be apart of ur child’s life let it be .. cuz at the end of the day to him ur fiancé is his dad and always will be .! If u teach him that he has another dad whose a deadbeat he’s always gunna wonder and have questions why his dad doesn’t love or want him and only wants his brother etc .. I’d jst let him stick to knowing ur fiancé is his only dad
Edna🌻·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Fuck him your little boy doesn’t need a fake happy birthday he has all your love that’s all he needs . Happy birthday to your sweet little guy I hope he has a wonderful day
Janni··
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года)
I know thats why i dont even stress ir anymore and Thank you love
Angela·
If he feels like that it’s probably better he don’t be in his life he don’t need that and I wouldn’t trust him to take him either you don’t know how he will treat him. I’d be hurt and mad too no matter what he’s a lame who does that! I’m sorry girl I say take him to child support and they will do a DNA then he’s gona feel stupid.
Janni··
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года)
Thats why he has been trying to see them lately and ive said no because of the way he is and I honestly dont trust him either with him
Your Worst Nightmare 😘·
Get child support they will do the test then let his ass pay for his kid
Your Worst Nightmare 😘··
@janni97, wow that’s a lie 🤣 there idiots
Janni··
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года)
thats why on top of the messeges is says okay ill get it done thats about the Childsopport because he puts the money him self and it takes a whole week to get to me but yeah the judges here they dont care they even told me that they cant make him a father when i had asked to get visitation for him
Your Worst Nightmare 😘··
maybe move out of that county and try somewhere else 😩