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Heather 👰👪👪

Came in for my D & C this morning. The OBGYN doing the procedure told me yesterday on the phone to…

Came in for my D & C this morning. The OBGYN doing the procedure told me yesterday on the phone to come in ah 6:00 AM.

I get here at 6 and no body is here. Turns out they don't come in until 7, so when the OB comes to talk to me she goes "You said I told you to come in at 6?" Like literally took no responsibility. I was like yeah, she goes "Oh yeah, normal it would be 6, but on weekends it's 7.

THEN she literally tells the nurse that "somebody" told me to come in at 7. Like how hard is it to take responsibility?!

Then. She isn't even my normal OB but she wasn't available until later next week so this OB decided to do it, she literally told me the reason I could have miscarried is because I'm nursing my daughter still. Like what the heck. Who says that? And you're not even my doctor so why are you putting in your two cents?

Now I'm sitting in recovery, and have to have medicine to help stop my bleeding because I passed a baseball size clot.

Ugh. I just want to go home to my babes. I miss them!

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lovebrown

Love Brown

Sorry you going through this.

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bhtslove

Heather 👰👪👪

I'm stuck here for at least another two hours too because I'm bleeding so much. So it's not like I can even go home like I was supposed to an hour and a half ago. 😭

Adding insult to injury. 😬

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raisingblueyedbabiesx2

Dusty

I'm sorry ur going though this iv had 2 so I understand my mom bf when she was pregnant and she was told it was killing both of tben bcuz her body bought support it so she had to stop. But that's not her business I would talk to ur ob when you come in for the check up

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raisingblueyedbabiesx2

Dusty

@bhtslove oh definitely she dont know ur body and has no right to talk about it some can handle it some cant how far where you? Somtin3w they just happen I had a rn ask me if I was pregnant when I was getting ready for my dnc everyone in that room turned 13 shades of red I was liek idk how to even answer that!

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bhtslove

Heather 👰👪👪

@raisingmyblueyedrainbowbaby I was early. Like 6 - 7 weeks. Never got a heartbeat. My OB said chromosomal abnormality.

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raisingblueyedbabiesx2

Dusty

well that has nothing to do with bf then 🤦‍♀️ that's what they said caused my blighten ovum.

Stay strong dont let her get to you

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heatherlou88

Heather

I breastfed while I was pregnant, my entire pregnancy. Everyone tried to tell me that too but my OB said I wouldn't have any problems. I'm sorry your going through this momma!! Prayers for you & your family!

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bhtslove

Heather 👰👪👪

Thanks! Yeah. My OB said that too. She did she'd only be worried if I started having cramping etc.

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heatherlou88

Heather

yeah. Same.

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yurmomsahoe

A

Chromosomal abnormality is really all they can say. There isn't enough research done on miscarriage to give an absolute definite explanation. I had one in 2015. Missed miscarriage. Baby stopped growing at 6 weeks, I carried it to 12. Passed naturally. It was the hardest, most difficult thing I have ever had to do..

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mommy2asher

Kristin chambers

I’m so sorry! After I had my D & C and went to recovery and I woke up they had given me a nurse who was 6 months pregnant. It was so hard to even look at her.

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