I have seen ALOT of posts where women are telling other women to kick out their SO or husbands…

And what's your point? Women shouldn't be SAHM's? because some men are fucking assholes?

My point is people need to stop giving bad advice especially when the woman can't technically kick out her boyfriend or husband when he pays the bills.

So “stay with an asshole/cheater/abuser” is good advice? Mmmmmm ok Karen.

The bad advice is to stay in a unhealthy relationship.

You guys obviously do not understand. I am not saying to stay with him I am saying that she should indeed leave but she can not kick him out because she does not pay the rent or mortgage.

So because the guy is a jerk or maybe even abusive the women if she’s a SAHM doesn’t have the right to kick him out? I don’t think so. Just because he brings home the money to support doesn’t give him the right to treat her like crap. Let her kick him out.

I’ve been a teen mom ,single mom, divorced mom “I tell all women to always have an Emergency fund for themselves ALways with or without a man “grateful for my career from a young age & some women are controlled by a man who take s their financial stability away it’s sad “A woman should always do what’s best and safest for her and her children men come & go !

So if the man is willing to kick his wife and kids out of the house he pays for it’s safe to assume that he’s been paying her to stay home and raise those kids so she has funds to leave?

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I agree with you lol lots of hate here. I was always uncomfortable giving advice to someone whose situation you have no idea about. They may have had a fight or a disagreement and people give advice based on that. What about the good times? What about the fact you have like 3 children together? Where did that come from?

I’m in the same situation but I’m disabled haven’t filled I really don’t wanna take government money. We just coexist he doesn’t cheat or abuse or anything we just don’t have anything goin really 🤷‍♀️ he can’t live without me and I can’t live without him point blank really my papaw and stepmamaw where the same way each had their own bedrooms lol just coexisted

Wow, it is obvious that people do not have reading comprehension. What it sounds like is some people are easily stating " kick him out" without thinking of how the sahm is going to survive. The smart thing to do is to develop a nest egg and to become self sufficient. Nothing is wrong with being a sahm, but with being a sahm, you are financially dependent on your spouse. No one said stay in any relationship, what was said it stop giving advice you wont take yourself.. so many people on here taking about " leave him" when your boyfriend, husband, fiancee has been cheating for months, years weeks ect and you still stay saying " but i love him". Also, in most states no one who recieves mail at a place of residence can be " kicked out". You have to start an eviction process if you are not on the lease. If you and the other person is on the lease, you have to take yourself off thr lease . Just kicking people out is not legal or sound. Fyi. If you kick the person out, you will end up homeless; who is going to pay the bills? Also, even if the guy is abusive, there are thimgs to consider; has she called the police, does she have a restraining order ect to determine if he can be kicked out.Sometimes leaving the house is the safest thing to do ( due to the best place to be is not where the abuser knows where you are). It is not as easy as y'all say on here.. it's kind of like you people are simple... kind of vacant... in the mind. Have a great day :-)

I agree with the nest egg portion. You should have a stash no matter what. Shit happens.