This weekend my ex is actually taking both kids for the weekend!!
Only nearly 7 months down the line but it's a start.
Cinema date is definetly on the cards with a few drinks 😁
Real life purge? Did anyone hear about this "real life purge" that's supposed to happen in Louisville this weekend?
Anybody had a 4d scan 16 weeks ? Booked for weekend excited 😁
I told my bf today that he can have a one weekend hall pass before the baby comes.. and one day a weekend to himself every weekend from now untill the baby comes (because he works then comes home to me every day, and spends his whole weekend with me as well). Even though hell have the one weekend hall pass I know him well enough that he wouldn't go sleep with another girl, and even if he did decide to he'd be smart about it. Would any of you do this with your man?
bby shower dis weekend
Sarah Kimpton ·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
Has he seen them in those 7 months?x
Abbi··
Мама двоих (младенец)
He had Noah every other weekend and only seen violet on pick ups and drop offs or the occasional afternoon x
Tammy ·
Enjoy!!! Im sure shell be fine shes got her big brother too😘 xx
Abbi··
Мама двоих (младенец)
Yess! I'm super nervous and I'll proberly cry but noahs excited about her coming this time so makes me happy to know there together x
Sarah Kimpton ·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
No disrespect, but I'd be a bit apprehensive about him taking a child he had no bond with. Especially for a weekend. Xx
Abbi··
Мама двоих (младенец)
Oh don't get me wrong im nervous as hell, but I've tried for too long now for him to get this bond but he made excuses and the only time he will now see the kids is 2 weekends a month as he's moved away. This is the only way she'll get any type of bond with him. If she gets to upset I've said to bring her back anyways but this is the only time he sees the kids 🙄 xx
Sarah Kimpton ·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
I understand that you are wanting him to get the bond with her. But I would have it on my terms. No way would I let him take her for a weekend, unless I knew she was happy with him. You can only say that, if you see them together. And not just for a few hours. Please don't think I'm having a go. I'm not. I've got 5 children with 3 different fathers (burning in hell for eternity, I know lol) . My oldest 2 had a good relationship with their dad. My youngest daughter never knew her dad. He'd turn up, take her. And she'd cry for me. She's 7 now and has never spent the whole day with her dad. She's too attached to me and she hardly knows him.He sees her once a week to do the maccies run. Good luck with your decision. xxx
Abbi·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I've tried it on my terms and I get threatened with court, we've had arrangements were he was meant to come round once or twice a week to spend time with her but happened once or I tell him I need him to come round while I pop out, kind of force him (worked round the corner) he won't take her for the day says there's no point 🙄 but I'll allow it for this weekend and if she isn't happy then it will just show he needs to make more of an effort.
Oh and don't worry I love to hear other people experiences and opinions it really helps! This is my last resort in him getting to know his daughter really because everything else has failed, and I'm hoping having Noah there will really help as she adores him so much and his versa. X
Jessica-Louise ·
Мама троих детей
Was this arrangement out of the blue? Is he on the birth certificates?
Are you 100% sure you want to do this xx
Abbi··
Мама двоих (младенец)
It was meant to be December but he decided to push his move forward.
And yeah he is on both.
Not 100% but I don't think I ever will be, he has everything for her there, and I know he can look after a baby as we was together with Noah so I have no doubt in his ability to be a dad, it's just hard as she's been with me apart from 1 night, I was the same when he took Noah for the first time when we split!x
Jessica-Louise ··
Мама троих детей
Aslong as you feel she’s safe and you have his address etc then it’s ok I mean you have to start somewhere don’t you! Xx
Abbi··
Мама двоих (младенец)
she'll definetly be safe and I have the address and he can bring her back. Yeah I don't think it ever gets easier letting your kids go off to the other parent esspically when your with them all the time. I'm just happy noahs so excited to have his sister go with now x