So I just don’t know how to feel right now.... so my husband pays child support and more than half…
So I just don’t know how to feel right now.... so my husband pays child support and more than half of his earnings goes to my bonus children’s mom.... but it’s like it’s never being used for them I’m not exaggerating when I say they call EVERY DAY or EVERY OTHER day asking for 25-50 dollars saying they need food or need their hair done or to get their phone screens fixed ... when we have it we give it but lately we haven’t been having anything extra our boys still haven’t even gotten winter clothes yet... but they try to make him feel bad when he doesn’t have it and I used to feel bad too but it’s like the child support isn’t even being used for them... I really would like to try to get custody of them but it’s like “oh y’all trying to take them away from their mom “ or then it’s “ y’all need to get those kids” it’s like we can’t win for losing... sorry I just needed to vent 🤦🏽♀️
MiMi·
Yes ma’am people don’t understand when they’ve never been in the situation and when they get in the situation they would FOLD... My husband has it in his mind that his children will hate him when they get older but like I told him... they know that you love they and when they get older and have to pay bills they will understand... it’s not like we won’t ever do anything for them... but it’s like we could buy a happy meal and post it on fb and soon as they see it each one of them will call claiming the need something or they don’t have any food in their house smh ... but the mommas hair is always done lashes and nails done and you think I’m about to sit here struggling because you think just because you have kids by this man that it’s ok that you bleed is dry... hell to the no
MiMi··
@garay88, exactly 🤦🏽♀️
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I'm with you on that post
MiMi··
Jana ·
How old are the kids? If they are old enough to understand have him sit them down and talk to them about the money thing. Say ok I only make 2,800 a month, I give your mother 1,400 a month to help take care of you guys and after that I have to pay bills and have no more money after that. I know some people say don't involve kids in grown up problems but they actually understand more than we think. Also if you have texts saying they do not have food/being fed save that for leverage if you do ever get into a custody battle.
MiMi··
Ty I ran the idea by him an we are going to talk to them this coming weekend ... we’ll we plan on it
Your Worst Nightmare 😘·
Tell her what’s up say you get your money nothing more that’s not his problem 💯 we have to deal with the same shit the mom buys drugs and the kid has nothin but cps could care less 🙄 she won’t let him talk to his dad and she just calls to ask for crack money smh 🤦🏽♀️
MiMi··
Ty 💛