So Aminas dad thinks I should sit her in my lap and feed her myself, before I eat, like he does.…

So Aminas dad thinks I should sit her in my lap and feed her myself, before I eat, like he does. Like bro she's going to be 2 in February. She LOVES feeding herself and is getting better at it. I think its important that she learns to use utensils especially since she's already doing so good. Also she's going to be a big sister in March so I'm trying get her to do things like feed herself, sleep in her own bed, potty train etc. The only thing she's having a problem with is sleeping by herself. Do y'all think she's too young?