Hate living in a small town and running into ppl whom was involved in some the worst parts of your life, then having to…

Is it they have power over us bc what they took part in bothers us to this day?

It's a female (one of many that did wrong with my now husband when we was just dating in the first 2 yrs) we are together for 9yrs now but married for 4 almost 5yrs.

@mommyof4plus2, maybe. But I accept what he did to me. He broke me and I had to build myself up again and learn how to move on and become a mother by myself. I think it’s because it bothers me but also because I’m so scared of the potential power he still has over me. Like for me, I’m still terrified he can make my life hell if he wanted to.

@lizibear84 lol my SIL some how got a wedding college of us at our wedding and posted it on her FB his cousin showed my husband and the captions was " this is disgusting and a disgrace to our family, no love" she has like m thousands of ppl on her FB including my all husband's side chicks and hoochie mama's she is still friends with from his wild young manchild hood before me and some after we started dating. We dont have fb but these ppl are insane they accuse me of cheating like 3 times already, but they know their son/brother was a man whore when we first met and he was the one doing wrong, BUT CORINNE sleeps with every man she come in contact with LMFAOOOOOO. On Christmas eve when I was pregnant with our first we was going through McDonald's drive thru his mom and sister followed us(mind you we hadn't talked to them in 2 yrs then) his mom followed us and stopped beside us In the drive thru window his sister gets out bagging on my window in his car yelling bitch get out his car(we'd been dating for 4 yrs then) so she walking around smashed her fat ass between his car and the building, yelling what she in your car for, you a bitch he tried rolling up the window, she came inside unlocked the door he locked it then started punching him in the face the lady in McDonald's locked her window and the manager came out calling the cops his mom saw they calling the cops and yelled "Get in the car Danyel he will get his let's go b4 the cops get here" they fled cops came McDonald's employees made a report we did and he pressed charges they arrested her that night and the police report said her reasons was bc her brother pick those white ppl over their family and he wasnt spending the holidays with them he was spending it with those white ppl. MIND YOU THE WHOLE TIME HE WAS WITH ME SINCE THE START HE NEVER SPENT THE HOLIDAYS WITH THEM ALREADY lol bc they dont do big holidays and my family does lmfao

@mommyof4plus2, damn! My SIL has convinced herself that we’ve all done these horrible things to her and ruined her life, that have never happened.

@lizibear84 atleast I'm not alone and I thought I was lol