Give up. Spent thursday night crying my eyes out to OH, I hate the weekend,.OH is out all saturday…
Give up.
Spent thursday night crying my eyes out to OH, I hate the weekend,.OH is out all saturday playing footy and going pub, Sunday I have LO by myself again on top of house work and work work that I've got to do. Told him so many times how depressed I am all because of how the weekdns are. This morning tells me football is cancelled hallelujah. 2 seconds later "I'm going to go and watch my mates team play instead seeing as I've got nothing to do" ... while I'm stood there having not showered in a week, arms full of dirty laundry, toddler clinging to my leg, dirt all over my clothes from cleaning the pet house I just give up
Charmaine Louise Lay ·
Oh hun maybe try having a serious talk with him x hope you feel better within your self soon xx
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Мама сына (1 год)
I just feel like why bother asking me whats wrong if when I tell it's a case "well I'm going to ignore that fact youd really like me to stay at home" and then later on he will say sorry he doesnt help much and I just feel like you're clearly not sorry because if you were your chnage your actions rather than just keep saying sorry guess its just me, LO and the laundry pile for the weekend again
Charmaine Louise Lay ··
the feeling is horrid me personally would be pissed off as well I would be saying something and making sure something changes x
Tammy ··
me personally would leave his washing to do himself. And see how he likes it when nothing is done for him he cant just get up n ready to go whenever he feels. Xx
Jessica-Louise ·
Мама троих детей
Have you not showered because you are feeling down or because of baby? If you are feeling depressed please make a doctors appointment. If you are feeling low because of him not being supportive then sit down and explain how you are feeling.
Shower when baby has a nap I have three and can still manage to wash twice a day, takes two mins to throw things in the washing machine perhaps do that while baby is in the high chair tucking into a yogurt or something. You really need to talk to him because he is acting like a bloke with no responsibilities and it’s clear he is mostly bringing you down rather than supporting you x
Vicci Ball·
My oh would have had an earful if he did this. He’s lucky he goes fishing every other weekend Friday to Sunday morning, however if we’ve got something on or I need help as one of the boys is ill he will cancel. We’ve had discussions about how he was being selfish before.
You need to speak to him and make him see how you are feeling, go drs as well to speak to a professional.
Hope things pick up XX
Hi, I'm Kim Mum To 3 And I Have 1 Angel Baby 😊😊 Can't Wait To Meet New People ·
Iv been in a similar situation but just with my OH working all the time , so I told If nothing changes then that’s it no point been in a relationship might aswell be a single parent (I just wanted to scare him ) a little bit , and that did the trick xx only dose day shift home every night
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Мама сына (1 год)
Thanks everyone, I am a bit down I think I tend to be when winter comes but I could tell I was depressed on the summer when I noticed I wasnt showering or taking care of myself generally but I struggle to prioritise and usually anything to do with me gets pushed to the bottom of the list. I feel like I've spoken to him loads about it, he said he will have LO tomorrow which obviously is great because it gives me free time but I felt like you @kim1995 in that if we are going to have one day where LO is with me and one day where LO is with daddy then we may as well not even be a family.
Hi, I'm Kim Mum To 3 And I Have 1 Angel Baby 😊😊 Can't Wait To Meet New People ··
You doing it already ??
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Мама сына (1 год)
he is having Lo and taking him out tomorrow to bond with him, which hes done before. Like I said all very good but wheres the family time