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 Stevie Marie 👑

So I'm at the ER due to shocking pain down my back and bad cramping. They are telling me that my baby's heartbeat is…

So I'm at the ER due to shocking pain down my back and bad cramping. They are telling me that my baby's heartbeat is abnormally high. Has this happened to anyone? They can't explain why but they are telling me it's not right.

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eatmyassfromtheback-kthanks

Sistersmainpiece

Did they tell you what the heartbeat is?

steviemariemalm

Stevie Marie 👑

No. They just said it's past the normal range.

steviemariemalm

Stevie Marie 👑

@dontblockmesis-imjustspeakingfacts Ok. Hold on

steviemariemalm

Stevie Marie 👑

They don't know what they are talking about. It's 179. I'm so pissed.

eatmyassfromtheback-kthanks

Sistersmainpiece

see I figured it was going to be in range. Don’t let them work you up.

steviemariemalm

Stevie Marie 👑

I guess now they are checking my electrolights? Anytime I ask them something they are very short. It's like nobody is on the same page.

eatmyassfromtheback-kthanks

Sistersmainpiece

I notice a lot of times when I’ve gone to the Er while pregnant, a lot of them aren’t specialized in ob/gyn so they give a very generalized statement/facts. Their specialty is generally trauma. Are they trying to say you may be miscarrying? Did they discuss the ultrasound or just the hb?

earthy_momma

Alyssa

If there are answers you are wanting, kindly and firmly tell them to “stop” and let them know you are confused and would like clarification. The ER is insanely busy so you have to snap them out of it all and make it known you want answers.

steviemariemalm

Stevie Marie 👑

I wish I could look at my own chart.

steviemariemalm

Stevie Marie 👑

Now they are saying I have a subchorionic hematoma and that I might lose the baby. I can't even see straight I'm so upset. I just want to leave.

earthy_momma

Alyssa

that is pretty tiny if it’s in mm. My friend just last week was diagnosed with one that is 2.5cm. So over double the size of yours. They are not overly concerned and believe that it will clear on its own and all will be well. Definitely stay hydrated and follow up with your OB. Hers is technically a blood clot. She was already on some things to thin her blood anyways but definitely contact your ob and tell them these findings so they can look into it.

steviemariemalm

Stevie Marie 👑

I'm going to give him a call tonight once I get home.

steviemariemalm

Stevie Marie 👑

I really appreciate you responding to me. Thank you. It means alot to me.

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