I'm turning 21 tomorrow and I feel like the dumbest thing I've ever done is be pregnant on my 21st bday. Not only that but I feel like this is my last bday to be cool and young but I'm broke with zero plans, zero friends. I guess 23 will be my year because I plan to be breastfeeding this time next year when I turn 22.
AF due 29th, anyone else? Hi all AF is due 29th Sept for me feels like forever away. Has anyone tested yet or when do you plan on testing x
Birth Plan Rant I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
Didn't enjoy my Birthday as I thought I would. Just didn't picture being where I'm at now. 2015 is kinda my disappointment year. I had been looking forward to 2015 since 2012. sigh. like they say. life doesn't always turn out as you plan it
AM I THE ONLY ONE Who feels like when I'm on the highway traveling and me and a car follow eachother for awhile, I feel like we are friends and when they exit I get sad?!? Because if I'm not the only one who feels like this then I have the BEST story of my life for you.
I feel like all you girls on here hate me 😔 so I'm gonna delete this app ✌
Tacomomma·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Haha more then 10years older then you and my first thought is that you’re saving a bunch of money!!! I totally get how you feel though. Not a big drinker myself but sometimes it’s nice to go out and let loose. Your 21st birthday is a day your supposed to be able to do that! You’ll do it.....when you do it’ll be so much better too because it will REALLY be needed!!!! LOL just know your a great momma and right now, no matter what your age, it’s all that matters!!!!
Ajaecymone·
В ожидании первенца
Well I’m sure your 23rd will be lit asf! And since that’s a few years away you can start saving and planning now. That way you can go all out and have an amazing time.
Lilo··
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (20 нед.)
Thanks for speaking it into existence! That sounds like a good idea to start planning and saving so itd be easier once my 23rd bday gets here
Kimberly ·
Мама троих детей
I was pregnant for my 21st. I got fuuuucked up for my 22nd to make up for it. 😭
Kimberly ··
Мама троих детей
But you know what, being 21 and not partying is okay. Going out sucks anyway. You’ll find some way to make it special still.
Lilo··
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (20 нед.)
yeah I know right I never go out to parties, clubs anything. I thought 21 would be the one time I do but it's looking like I'm just going to stick to my normal pizza, cupcakes, icecream and soda for my bday
*****·
.. I’m 23 n I never been a partier or drinker jst smoke weed .. but I haven’t actually got to smoke how I want since I was 21 .. i got pregnant at 21 and been pregnant ever since 😂 so I miss smoking but my babies are more important than drinking or smoking ..
Lilo··
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (20 нед.)
Right I don't even feel comfortable drinking with an infant. Like I know I can but it's just weird. When my next baby is like 18 months or more I may consider it. I may never go back to smoking unless I'm on vacation with no kids lmao edibles maybe if they're away for the weekend or something
Pat·
Not drinking on your 21st isn’t the end of the world. And as a new momma to be, it should be the last of your worries!
Lilo··
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (20 нед.)
It's not the end of the world it just sucks because it's the only day I can drink guilt free and I won't be able to. Drinking isn't my thing so it's kind of now or never. Fate chose never lol
Loyanna Hunter·
Мама троих детей
Being pregnant shouldn’t discourage you just because you can’t drink. You have a lifetime ahead of you to drink and breastfeeding doesn’t mean that you can’t drink either. You’re young. Go out to eat. Go shopping. You can still enjoy your birthday. I hate you feel this way.
Lilo··
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (20 нед.)
I know it's just that I was looking forward to drinking lol. I've done my fair share of going out to eat and shopping in the pass couple of years so it's just not as special I guess. I haven't drank in over 2 years. Maybe it's just hormones and I'll hopefully be happier tomorrow
Emily·
Мама сына-младенца
I'm sorry you're feeling that way :( I also have 0 friends in this area and spend all my time working or with my son so I feel you. 21 ain't the last year to have fun though! There will always be time once your kids are a little older ❤
Lilo··
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (20 нед.)
I want to straighten my hair, I haven't done so in over 4 years. And pig out on pizza, that's what I usually do lol
Emily··
Мама сына-младенца
if you were nearby I'd offer to come over and do your hair! Girl time is everything especially when you have kids.
Lilo··
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (20 нед.)
awww that's sweet! And would be nice, I literally haven't had girl time since once when my friend took me to subway and smoke after when I was in junior or senior year of high school.