I wish people stop asking me if I’m done having kids I think that is so disrespectful especially since no one helps me with my children but the man I made them with I just can’t believe people really are that rude
Omg people ask me all the time, “so are you going to try for a boy now?” No, no, I’m not because I’m a girl mom and I love that title! If God chooses to bless me with a boy then I be happy but if not, I’ll be a happy girl mom forever. 🤷🏻♀️
It’s so rude to ask anyone that. I always get asked if we are going to keep trying to get a girl. Dude, mind your ducking business. I had 4 boys so I am good. You also never know what a woman is going through. She could have had multiple miscarriages etc.
I was just saying this the other day! I hate when people fix their lips to say this to me or make rude comments like “dang you got a football team” 🙄
I agree like please live your life not mine thank you
Ridiculous people as me when I'm gonna have a boy seriously
I think that was one of the triggers for me to because they act like we have a choice of what we have i just thank god for blessing me with healthy babies people are so rude smh
Someone asked me was I getting my tubes taken out or tied I think that’s the most I’ve cussed all my life I couldn’t hold back because why tf is my kids such a bother to someone who doesn’t have to care for them
Lmao I know I had two by 18 old heads would ask me if I knew how to put a nickel between my knees I’m like naw I swallowed that 😂👌🏼
Oh not to mention I was 18 when I got pregnant with my first one and I was going around FUCKING SMILING announcing my news. I was like hey guess what "I'm pregnant" or "im having a baby! 🤗" and I thought I'd get a lot more congratulations but instead I constantly got "is that a good thing?" "Are we happy about it?" "Really!? Are you gonna keep it?"
Really..I dont understand. Even if I thought someone had way too many babies way too fast, NOTHING would ever possess me to say something like that to them directly or even to anyone else. I make note in my head and move on bc it isnt my business. I'm 20 yrs old and will be 21 in 11 days and as soon as I got pregnant with this one people were like "are you done after this one?" Like bitch I might be and i might not be I'm 20 I've got a good long ways to go before i have to make up my mind. And my friend I grew up with, her mother just had a baby at like 40 that left an age gabe of like 11-12 years between her middle child and youngest. It's nobody's business and I agree it's super disrespectful.
I agree, I absolutely hate that. Or when people say I’m too young to have that many. Like excuse you?
I get the opposite.. people always ask when I'm going to have another baby... When I tell them we are one and done, they feel it's in their rights to argue with me about it.. they say things like "well she HAS to have a sibling" or "your husband deserves a son"
I mean seriously I'm 42 years old and it took me 7 years to conceive the one kid I have. Quite frankly the idea of TTC all over again makes my palms sweat, and is not something I I can mentally go through again. (I had multiple miscarriages during those 7 years) Also hubby is perfectly happy having a daughter and she has loving cousins that treat her like a sister...
Besides who the fuck are they to tell me how big of a family I should have? It's not like they are paying my bills or putting my kid through college.
Tell them to fuck off I'm on the other end ppl always asking when we going to have more like nonyafucking business when
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I need people to remember i will not be pregnant for every so keep that sane energy ur givin me 2 months n 27 days
Is it weird that I get annoyed at the thought of people helping me when baby is home? People ask me this all the time. My SO and I plan to share night shifts, etc. Am I stubborn? It's our kid so I feel like we can do it on our own👍🏼 lol.
Ppl still ask me that and I’m not even pregnant. 4 and sooooooo doooooonnnnnnneeeeeeee!!!
That 4th kid is truly a game changer I’m so done. But I have baby fever bet I won’t give in this time.