Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
i’m honestly so upset. today was my boyfriend & i’s anniversary & i thought we would spend the whole day together but he decided to leave to go be with his friends. am i selfish for wanting him the whole day? :/
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Ok so my son just got his first job. He’s also type 1 diabetic. Well last night while working his sensor starts going off his blood sugar dropped to 52. They told him he could deal with it after he got his orders done, which in a way I understand that but at the same time if it drops low enough he can pass out and that won’t be good for anyone!! They wouldn’t even let him just grab some glucose tabs out of his bag. I’m so torn here because I don’t know what’s appropriate and what’s not.
Your Worst Nightmare 😘·
Tell him bring you a plate have fun lol ...I’m the same way they don’t like me or my kids I’m not gonna play like I give af either 🤷🏼♀️💯
Mandy·
Compromise. Can you invite his family to your place and host or least be willing to go see his family when the baby is a little older around Christmas. I totally get what you're saying but it sounds like seeing his family is important to him. You can't just see your family because they're closer and not be willing to see his at all eventually.
Amanda··
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We normally see them once a month but neither of us didn’t want to take him for a couple months since it’s 2 hours away and my husband likes to stay over night so before he was born we planned on going up for thanksgiving and Christmas Day but now I’m getting down on myself a lot and just wanna stay close to home and not have to worry about them judging me just Bc I’m not myself. I barely wanna get off the couch not to mention going 2 hours away stay the night somewhere with our baby and have him not sleep good Bc it’s a new place and have to be social
🌸GoodVibeTribe🌸·
I’m sure if you just told his family how you feel yourself that they’d understand. Maybe even tell him if it’s THAT important he goes for a little while but doesn’t stay the night. He can eat and bring you home a plate. That way everyone wins. I totally can understand you wanting to stay home especially for the reasons you have. And having a baby so small still is hard to spend nights away from where you’re comfortable. Sometimes people I think forget what it’s like to have newborn.
Penelope ·
I would see if you guys could go earlier, so you don’t have to overnight.
If that’s not an option get a hotel for the night. Then you can leave and have your own space.
Mama Coco·
Ran into this myself a few weeks ago over some family tradition. We compromised and went earlier in the day, like lunch time, when my newborn was more likely to nap and not cluster feed. I felt the exact same way, what’s the point of me going to dinner if I’m just going to be locked in a bedroom and don’t get to enjoy the meal with everybody. Idk if that’s an option for you or not, but wanted to share what we ended up doing in case it helps.
Kayyyy·
I agree just tell him how you feel. Maybe give a little and take a little. Like say you’ll do Christmas Eve or something there but that you’d prefer the actual holidays at your home with your new family starting new traditions. Just have a heart to heart with him, be open and honest and come to a decision together
BakingDaddy ·
Just tell him you want to start new traditions. Stay home, don't go see family, they can come to you if they want. Make dinner together and just spend the day as a family.
I can understand him wanting to go see his family just like I understand you wanting to see yours. Make it a fresh year just together at home as a new family.