Ladies let me ask y’all a question now there’s a guy I met off line I look up every person that normally I talk to and when I looked him up he got old things from 2014 and 2015 now when I looked I seen he been arrested numerous of times and he also have to protective orders for domestic violence. Now should I not talk to him and be Cautious because of it and leave it alone al togather or I shouldn’t worry because it’s the pass ?
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Okay yeah I will because like I was confused on what I should do and My friend was telling me this is old as shit even worry about it and give it a chance but I’m just like you know if he did it one time he’ll do it again
@lilcici once a person hurts another, they are more likely to do it again.
It only gets worse usually. Ive been in a dv relationship. There is no such thing as old shit when it comes to dv. Im a 911 dispatcher married to a cop.. ive heard and hes seen too many women cry that he had changed. But he didnt. Because they dont.
Run. If you respect urself then run. You dont owe him an explanation. Your friend obviously doesnt understand how shit is.
You are worth more than that. Because by the time u realize it isnt old shit.. and you realize he is still a woman beater it might be too late.
I mean that he could have violated another woman after the last reported occurrence. The woman probably didn’t report it...
Just saying in case your decision was hinging on “it’s his past”...
*In the past = Documented proof. Majority of women don’t report DV.
This is so true. The reality of dv is most go unreported
Cut it off ASAP
Also cut that friend off, no good friend should tell you to let domestic abuse slide cause "it's the past"
@beetlejuice_beetlejuice_beetlejuice, okay I will I should of did that before I messed him but I didn’t look him up before I did and like another thing wired is he already calling me baby early and stuff too which is a bit wired
@lilcici definitely is. Hopefully everything goes well and he doesn't turn into a crazy Psycho.
@beetlejuice_beetlejuice_beetlejuice, that’s all I been having in my life fr so it’s like I don’t want that again at all so i got think of how to do it
Nope don’t tlk to him !! Domestic violence is no good means hes agressive and put his hands on others ..
Right even though it’s old my friend talking bout some still talk to him I’m like no he dangerous from wat I’m seeing and I heard one they do it once they keep doing it
I got to tell him first and I Ike Idk if u think this wired but if a guy start calling u baby fast I think something wrong with
@lilcici, how long have y’all been talking? A lot of guys just like sweet talking but in this situation it could be a red flag.
@amouryaya09, two months and I’m just looking him up seeing that
That’s what I was thinking it was a while ago but like idk fr I’m not going threw same shit I did
I would stay away especially cos you have kids. Wouldn't wana risk it
Well yeah but my best friend was like since it’s old I shouldn’t worry about it because it’s old
@lilcici,and that is not a best friend lol. Yipes.
2015 was yesterday lol. Sorry.
@icebergahead, that’s why I was like let me get on here and get other people opinions bout it
Right I was thinking that but I didn’t know if I should I just don’t know how to tell him fr it was years ago but if I see that on his record that he have protective orders against him than I should stay away Foreal
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2015 isnt that long ago. Cut that off and run