Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Guys if I was looking at a place to rent on Craigslist and I go to click on the ad again and this pops up does that mean it's a scam?? I need to know because my boyfriend and I have been talking to the person !!
First real case of Discrimination today. 😯 General Contractor kept asking where my SO when I was pulling off the job. Even said ‘How come he doesn’t come here and talk to me like a man’. Wow. I ended up calling the police because felt threatened in how defensive he was talking. Sheesh. I talked to a friend in the industry and told him everything that happen and he cut me off yelling ‘THATS DISCRIMINATION!’ Do I let it go? Or take him to court?
i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.
This is my son Walter. Today is his birthday. He would have been five. This picture was taken when he was 16 days old. He was my first child and my only son (I now have 3 girls). He passed away the next day after this picture from congenital heart failure. It was a miracle that he lived passed 12 weeks gestation because of how severe his heart defects were. I miss him so much, I can't believe it's been 5 years. It still hurts so bad. I don't talk about him a lot out loud because I end up bawling, so i thank you for letting me share this with you ladies. You have always been nice and supportive. Happy birthday son, your mom loves you.
HotMessMom·
Мама двоих (3 года, 11 лет)
2015 isnt that long ago. Cut that off and run
Ciera Cooper··
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
Okay yeah I will because like I was confused on what I should do and My friend was telling me this is old as shit even worry about it and give it a chance but I’m just like you know if he did it one time he’ll do it again
HotMessMom··
Мама двоих (3 года, 11 лет)
@lilcici once a person hurts another, they are more likely to do it again.
It only gets worse usually. Ive been in a dv relationship. There is no such thing as old shit when it comes to dv. Im a 911 dispatcher married to a cop.. ive heard and hes seen too many women cry that he had changed. But he didnt. Because they dont.
Run. If you respect urself then run. You dont owe him an explanation. Your friend obviously doesnt understand how shit is.
You are worth more than that. Because by the time u realize it isnt old shit.. and you realize he is still a woman beater it might be too late.
Leslie Williams (alias)·
I mean that he could have violated another woman after the last reported occurrence. The woman probably didn’t report it...
Just saying in case your decision was hinging on “it’s his past”...
Leslie Williams (alias)·
*In the past = Documented proof. Majority of women don’t report DV.
Ciera Cooper··
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
Wym
HotMessMom··
Мама двоих (3 года, 11 лет)
This is so true. The reality of dv is most go unreported
What's It To You?·
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет)
Cut it off ASAP
Also cut that friend off, no good friend should tell you to let domestic abuse slide cause "it's the past"
Ciera Cooper··
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
okay I will I should of did that before I messed him but I didn’t look him up before I did and like another thing wired is he already calling me baby early and stuff too which is a bit wired
What's It To You?··
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет)
@lilcici definitely is. Hopefully everything goes well and he doesn't turn into a crazy Psycho.
Ciera Cooper··
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
that’s all I been having in my life fr so it’s like I don’t want that again at all so i got think of how to do it
*****·
Nope don’t tlk to him !! Domestic violence is no good means hes agressive and put his hands on others ..
Ciera Cooper··
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
Right even though it’s old my friend talking bout some still talk to him I’m like no he dangerous from wat I’m seeing and I heard one they do it once they keep doing it
Ciera Cooper··
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
@flamingfiremom, smh wow
Maya 🐝·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Block him!
Ciera Cooper··
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
I got to tell him first and I Ike Idk if u think this wired but if a guy start calling u baby fast I think something wrong with
Maya 🐝··
Мама двоих (младенец)
@lilcici, how long have y’all been talking? A lot of guys just like sweet talking but in this situation it could be a red flag.
Ciera Cooper··
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
@amouryaya09, two months and I’m just looking him up seeing that
M H K S·
Мама четверых детей
I wouldn't risk it.
Ciera Cooper··
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
That’s what I was thinking it was a while ago but like idk fr I’m not going threw same shit I did
mrs.Jay__x·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I would stay away especially cos you have kids. Wouldn't wana risk it
Icebergahead·
Мама сына (8 лет)
You know this is a red flag
Ciera Cooper··
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
Well yeah but my best friend was like since it’s old I shouldn’t worry about it because it’s old
Icebergahead··
Мама сына (8 лет)
@lilcici,and that is not a best friend lol. Yipes.
2015 was yesterday lol. Sorry.
Ciera Cooper··
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
that’s why I was like let me get on here and get other people opinions bout it
Lucky Mommy ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Girl stay tf away
Ciera Cooper··
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
Right I was thinking that but I didn’t know if I should I just don’t know how to tell him fr it was years ago but if I see that on his record that he have protective orders against him than I should stay away Foreal
Lucky Mommy ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
@lilcici I wouldn't think bout it or risk it