Question ladies... (If you only have a negative opinion keep it to yourself) Would you be able to accept a proposal if…

Fuck no to all of this. Messy, messy, messy.

If you do accept the proposal, I’d probably wait til he wasn’t her husband anymore before I announced it. If y’all are each other’s forever then no need to rush. Also, all this will make him look like a huge dick to a judge if they battle over custody or anything else.

Shouldn't even be messing a married man periodt didn't anyone tell you there's a million men on this planet find your own guy ... Trust me honey plenty men that are single . you need to not even be in situation if I was his wife I'd beat your ass . cause you sound like a homewrecker I feel bad for the kids cause they didn't ask for this I pray for you tho

Hell no

Nope. But then again I wouldn’t even date someone going thru a divorce

I asked for negative comments to kept to themselves guess that’s asking for too much ... thanks ladies for all your opinions bad or good have a great day

Umm if he’s still married and talking to you then he’s obviously a cheater or was and. You probably won’t be any different and he’ll do it to you too there’s reasons why there goin threw a divorce 🤦🏽‍♀️

No. I wouldn’t want to open one door without closing the other. It wouldn’t feel right. If you guys are meant to be together then it’s going to happen. But for now while he still legally “belongs” to someone else, I personally would want to have the respect of him being a single man and asking me. You deserve to finally have things be done the right way. I would want to start my marriage off on the right foot and you start the foundation of your marriage while dating.

No

NO.

Here's some food for thought also...of you're getting in this relationship for some stability because you're a single mom... don't do it. If she's filing for divorce she'll be filing for custody and child support too...there probably won't be much of his paycheck left after the fact for you and your kids.

Fuck no to all of this. Messy, messy, messy.

This is a hot mess express. You’ve been dating someone who has still been living with his so called soon to be ex wife. I have no sympathy for people who sleep with married men

Thank you ladies I’m more confused now lol but I got a lot to think about

It depends on how long "going through" a divorce means..

If it's only been a few months then no.. if its been 5 plus years then yes

No.

I wouldn’t. Sounds too messy to do anything until it’s official.

If you do accept the proposal, I’d probably wait til he wasn’t her husband anymore before I announced it. If y’all are each other’s forever then no need to rush. Also, all this will make him look like a huge dick to a judge if they battle over custody or anything else.

I think there are a lot of factors to consider. How long he has been separated, when the divorce is happening, and how long you've been in a relationship are just three to mention. Personally, I don't think I would , but then again, I've never been in that position.

Sure! I’m not turning down any jewelry! 😉

They haven’t even filed . She’s filing this week ... I dated him for 5 years before he got married... He got married to move his kids to Cali but it didn’t work neither one of them were happy and I’ve always loved him and him the same... but he wants to get engaged now and have a baby now... I know he’s my forever we been through hell and back but I feel like an awe full person if I accept a proposal when their not divorced but I dunno I’m stuck

I wouldn’t accept unless he was officially divorced.

Yes

Like the divorce was not final and he proposes to you? No I would not accept it. I would not even date someone whom is separated. Due to the risk of them working things out. Save the back and forth promises.