Getting to a point where I’m ready to talk to someone about my daughter tantrums. Yesterday she…
Getting to a point where I’m ready to talk to someone about my daughter tantrums. Yesterday she started hitting me because she didn’t want to eat breakfast. Tried out her in time out she then starts stomping my feet & threw her toy stool at me.. I’m at the end of my rope with the hitting
Vee·
Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет)
It's still hard 3yrs old it's not the terrible 2s anymore it's the terrible 12345 s lol after 5 things get better lol that's what I experienced hang in there !!
chadria··
Мама дочки (3 года)
It’s the hitting & throwing things at me that’s the problem.. & when I do try put her in time out she stomps on my feet
Vee··
Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет)
oh my goodness lol fisty little girl you got there I'm sure she just expressing her dislike on what's going on one thing I know is that if she is 3 that's the amount of min on time out also you can do a behavior chart and give her a sticker when she do good and take out a sticker when she is misbehaving put it out of reach for her and add that if she gets 10 or more stickers in the week she gets a prize she will defiantly want to do better if you make the surprise a mystory! You got this !!!
Vee··
Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет)
when Sunday comes along start counting the stickers out loud and if it's less just talk out proud to yourself 'oh man is lts sad you have less then ten I'm gona have to wait till next Sunday to give you the surprise. Then throughout the week remind her about the stickers when she do something you don't like and when she do something to like praise her and put a sticker
Your Worst Nightmare 😘·
Bust that ass like she’s never seen ...take all of her stuff back but a bed make her earn that shit before it gets worse 💯
Blóðughadda·
Definitely talk to her doctor if it is concerning you.
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I mean my husband is 28 and has tantrums about like that.🙄🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ I’m going to specify so people don’t think he’s abusive. No, he doesn’t ever lay a hand on me or our kids when he gets mad. He just throws things and yells but I’ve never seen someone that age have temper tantrums quite like him. It’s crazy.
Your Worst Nightmare 😘··
Ya but they see that and that’s embarrassing he can’t conduct himself as a man smh 🤦🏽♀️
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@cheetahgurl420, it’s very embarrassing. My 3 year old daughter is a better example to people around her than he is! I know this way different than this lady’s toddler having typical toddler tantrums but I just wanted to point out that my husband is 28 with tantrums. What’s his excuse?! 😩
Alison·
Have you tried talking to her about her feelings, why she's feeling that way, ways to handle big emotions and ways that are not okay? She needs to learn how to control her emotions in a healthy way and its your job to help her identify how she's feeling and what she should do to help herself get through it. Or else you'll end up with a kid like pp's husband🤣
My daughter loved Daniel Tiger at that age. Whenever one of her friends were mad she'd sing "when you feel so mad that you want to roar, take a deep breathe and count to four" Not what worked for her but she loved preaching it.
chadria··
Мама дочки (3 года)
Okay I’ll try that lol
Alison··
What worked for my daughter was going to her bed and crying/letting out. When she was ready to talk she would call me and I'd go in there and we'd talk. Some people just need to be alone to calm down. On the other hand some people do better with a hug or just with you being there. Some kids you could ask them to take deep breathes and it'll help. It's all about finding what works for them and having them realize what works for them. When my 2yo is upset/mad she goes to her sister's room and sits at the end of her bed until I go in there from how much she saw her sister do it. Make it more about her helping herself learn how to handle her big emotions and she may be more inclined to want to figure it out too. Brainstorm with her and ask what she thinks will help her when she feels certain ways. -after she's calm though as a next time sort of thing.
chadria··
Мама дочки (3 года)
okay thank you! Very helpful