I have been the worlds worst mom today. Just haven’t been myself, distracted, full of anxiety. & now…
I have been the worlds worst mom today. Just haven’t been myself, distracted, full of anxiety. & now noahs been with my mom and his aunts playing for the past like 3 hours while all I do is rest. I know we’re supposed to fake it till we make it in front of our kids but I completely failed today 😔
Oppztryagain·
That's a fail to u? Stop being so hard on yourself. We all need rest!!! U did not fail. U cant take care of your kids if u dont take care of yourself
Kayyyy··
I didn’t think of it that way either. Thank you ❤️
Oppztryagain··
your welcome
🌸GoodVibeTribe🌸·
Shit happens boo. We all have those days.. I dont believe it’s a fail to show kids you are human & you TOO have bad days. It’s how you handle them that matters & I’d say giving yourself that time out shows sometimes we all need a timeout to take a nap or just relax our mind. Teaches your child that when they have a bad day, maybe they should take a break & relax.
Kayyyy··
I didn’t even look at it from this point of view so thank you for saying that love ❤️ I just hate reacting so when I get like that I prefer to be by myself and just chill instead. Let the day roll off my back. & that’s exactly what I would want my son to do too. I just feel like I always try and be super mom when I’m not doing good so Noah doesn’t see any of it, but sometimes it’s like woah just take a step back and go find some inner peace. You know?
🌸GoodVibeTribe🌸··
forsure mama❤️ glad I could make you feel a little better!! Like I said, we all have those days. More than once for some. I’d say you handled it in a good way & like you said, you’d be happy to see your son handle it the same way so you KNOW you’re a good mom & handled it well. It’s always hard because we come down SO HARD & set some serious high expectations for ourselves to where we forget sometimes we still are human & we still aren’t perfect. We’re just gonna kill ourselves slowly trying to be perfect. It’s a lot easier to be a happy mom, and less work than trying to be a perfect one.