Have you ever feel like you’re not important enough? do you feel like you do stuff for other people…

Have you ever feel like you’re not important enough? do you feel like you do stuff for other people but they don’t necessarily do things for you? Here lately me and me husband has been feeling like we aren’t important enough we feel like the black sheep in our church! I know you can’t wear your feelings on your sleeve but whenever our pastor said that he went to the hospital and pray for somebody who had a stroke it’s like a huge slap in our face like where were you when I had my stroke you never once came to the hospital and pray for me you never once came to the hospital and prayed for my son when he was born he spent two months in the hospital and not once did any pastoral staff show up, it’s sad that we feel like this. We are the type who drops everything and does whatever is needed for the other person but when we need something or something tragically happens no one is around😓😢