Any single moms have any tips? Im thinking about leaving a bad relationship get a job and try getting my own apartment. Will have to stay with my sister for awhile. I feel so guilty but i cant do it anymore! Single moms please give me some tips. I never had to pay bills o4r anything and nervous
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@cheetahgurl420 i understand. I have alot to think about. Casey has his 4th birthday party that we already sent invites out for. Im probly gonna wait till after that. I already made all the decore for it
@kellelutz, nothin will change unless u change it good luck girl
Stay strong you have family to stabilize your for your kids.
@kellelutz, couples fight! It’s normal if your not then I would be more concerned. Maybe seeking counseling my current partner and I tried it since then we have been doing a lot better. Fights still exists but our love is pretty strong, he never fails to make me fall for him again
@mama.ally2009 my bf shows no emotion most the time . so i dont feel loved
@kellelutz, I feel you. My hubby similar very vocal. His passion comes from his actions and words. We are learning our love languages tales two to tango.
Was a teen mom at 16 married at 18 and divorced my crazy,controlling abusive husband at 21, here are some tips to making it “be proud of yourself for having the courage to leave “it’s better to be alone than in bad company and let your children be your motivation “(I am 40 now and grateful for all I have gone thru met a better man yrs later and had 2 more son’s and my man treated my 1st son like his own!) get a calendar write down what date certain bills will be due and always if you can make your most expensive bill paid in 1 weeks work check you’ll always stay on budget which is usually rent , you could apply for food stamps,Wic also helps “you can message me anytime
Agree with @massgirl I've never seen a single mother unable to do anything shes put her mind to. It's scary and terrifying. It's okay to cry but keep going. Definitely take any help you can get
Save while you're with your sister don't take advantage of the time you're there. Once you leave don't look back. The person won't change. Be reasonable with visitation. File for child support asap. Get anything that the government can give you and remember that your situation is only temporary. Your kids are still young and can be resilient to what is happening. Getting out will only benefit them in the long run.
Thanks so much girl. Im just so scared ill not be able to do it.
@kellelutz start by filling out on the government applications now. Sometimes it can take a while for aid to come through. Figure out a child care situation while you go to work before you apply for jobs. It can be done
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