Tomorrow my son is spending the day with his aunty so I ask him if he's going to miss mommy and daddy and he looks at me with a smurk. So I tell him it's okay to express exactly how he feels. And he says yes. Lol
Do you moms allow your kids to be totally expressive with their feeling even through it may hurt yours?
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Ya, I didnt learned that until late in my teenage years lol. After i made a lot of enemies loo
Yes I want to know how they feel now matter how it will make me feel
I only ask cause growing up my mom allowed us to be very blunt and honest about our feelings. In the real world some people can't handle that sometimes.
@mammasimone, I just want my kids to know they can tell me anything don’t want them to be scared to tell me something
@meadlenaya41701 me too. Hopefully, we get that. I got 2 boys so idk how comfortable they feel about talking to me about some things.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So I finally kicked him out because I'm tired of getting yelled at for expressing my feelings. I literally feel dumb for wasting my time. But now he took my car.
Strippers.
How do you all feel about your SO/hubby going to the strip club? I honestly have jealousy issues and I dont approve of it for my SO, as he already doesn't like too go. But i feel like if he wants to see women stripping on poles, I can be his own personal stripper. Lol ? I am just curious to see what others feel and think!
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
Ever have a bad gut feeling about your husband ? Like he doing something he shouldn’t or whatever ?
I encourage honesty but try to temper it with saying it the gentlest way possible. Sometimes there is no easy way to say it, or if it some stranger, then give it to them both barrels, though. :)