I know this maybe I odd question but what are some of the things that help you get pregnant?
Ovulation predictor kits and basal body temperature. Oh and to take a BUNCH of vitamins everyday. My new ob always comments on the fact that I make boys only and blah blah, and tells me that I need to eat more bananas and pineapple when trying to conceive and not to have sex on ovulation day but 3 or 2 days before it, so I can conceive a girl. I remember I had sex on O day only, sometimes the previous days and after it, but always on O day. I don’t mind having another boy for my 3rd and last time, actually I love the idea of being a boy mom. But I wanna try those tips he gave me, out of curiosity.
@spookylyn, he said our vaginal fluids affect on what sperm gets to the egg. And explained many other things that I don’t remember .
Taking prenatal vitamins & having more sex especially on ovulation days

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Not wanting too 🤣