Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Make your own breakfast! At what age do you think a child should be making their own breakfast? I have a 10 year old and I think he is perfectly capable of making himself breakfast. It doesn't take rocket science to put some waffles into the toaster, or microwave some pancakes. My husband insists that he needs to have breakfast made for him because if we left it up to him he wouldn't eat enough and it would take him forever.
I saw this in a group. What's your opinion? Ok ladies y’all help me out 😭so my fiancé asked would I use a strap on him bout two months ago I cringed at the thought. Later I decided to give it a try and my fiancé were trying to spice up our relationship so I tried fingering him in his but . He liked it a lot . So the other night during sex he can’t put the blue with a dildo . I went ahead and we used it on both him and I . So he would lock up in the bathroom which concerns me . So last night we used it again just on him tho . I told him he seem like he enjoyed it a little to much . So I asked him had he been using it on his own he said yes . I asked him how often he said everyday because it feels good . I asked is he gay or thinking about being with a man he said no . But I can’t shake the thought . Am I wrong ?
Got home around 11... washed lil man up and made him a bottle... asked my husband to get off his phone and help me put him to sleep... as soon as I did, my husband sat on the couch and fell right to sleep with Zach in his arms... I walked over to him and picked Zach up and he has to nerve to jump awake talking about I scared him because he thought he dropped Zach... this is why I’ve stopped asking him to hold him... he is irresponsible... I ended up setting up Zach’s stand up floor lamp, rearranging his room, making him a late night/early morning bottle, rocking him to sleep in his car seat and then moving him to his room all while my husband was knocked out in the living room.... I swear I feel like a single mother
Melinda Westad·
Awww I’m sorry to hear you’re struggling. Is he just too small to latch or he developed a bottle preference or what do you think? That’s great you’re pumping though and giving him that nutritious mamas milk!
Kaitlinl20··
Мама троих детей
Hes having a really hard time latching. I have seen 5 different lactation consultants.
Melinda Westad··
has he been checked for lip and tongue ties?
Kaitlinl20··
Мама троих детей
yes he had his tongue tie clipped in the hospital. They said hes having trouble latching cuz hes a premie
Shania·
The only problem with pumping is that if you’re not consistent in doing it every two hours your supply will drop. I’ve been pumping since my son stopped breastfeeding randomly at 2months.
Also, if your period returns it can also cause a drop in supply. My supply tanked after my period so now we have to supplement.
I will say nursing is far more convenient! But all that matters is that he is getting enough to eat no matter what that means for you.
Kaitlinl20··
Мама троих детей
Thank you! Yes i have been consistently pumping every 3 hours like the lactation consultants have told me to do.
Shania··
glad to hear you have a lactation consultant to help you get it all sorted and give you all the necessary information!