Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
My sons dad messaged me and wants to talk to my son.. He doesnt know him. My kid knows of him but doesnt know him. Hes 10 and hasnt seen him since he was 4 and barely the years before that. Im not sure how to respond or just ignore it.
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.
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Мама сына-младенца
Doesn’t seem like you’re very involved in your nephews life so don’t compare him to your son if you’re not going to help him KNOWING he’s being neglected.
Lucky Mommy ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
What I'm try to say in the post is I would love to teach my nephew so much like I teach my son n makes me sad that I don't get to see him bc of the stuff his parents are doing
Blóðughadda·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
If the child is being neglected someone needs to step in and help. If his parents are on drugs then CPS needa to be called. Doesn't matter if family will get mad. This is a child who needs help. Those ignoring and enabling are part of the problem. If someone tgreatens/tries to harm you then look into what legal actions you can take there.
Lucky Mommy ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mama_bearof2i know my mom n law said she try calling CPS on them a few years back I never asked how that went and my mom started her shyt with her and my mom started coming at me telling me to leave my brother alone and I think my brother said something to my mom and my brother to me not to see them no more
Blóðughadda··
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@mama_bearof2 you can still try taking action to help these children.
Leopard ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Kids tend to learn from other children , is he neglecting his son or is there something stoping hind rom learning , making baby sounds at 5 years in my opinion could use some intervention
Lucky Mommy ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mama_bearof2 that's when she told me to leave my brother alone
Blue IsMyColor··
Мама троих детей
@mama_bearof2, if you know those kids are being mistreated and you don’t do anything, then it’s just as much on you. Who cares if someone gets mad.
Lucky Mommy ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
I'm not allowed to see them be by them or anything it's hard my mom n law called CPS on them n I got called by mom telling me to leave my brother alone n my brother told me I'm never allowed to see them