I wish my stepsons mother would just give up her rights... It's going on a year now sense she's seen…

My sister is going through something similar except it's her baby daddy whose barely seen his son who is now 7, been in and out of jail, and is on drugs.

He just doesn't want to sign them over because he doesn't want my sister's wife to legally adopt him 🙄

Dante's almost 3 in Nov and she had custody of him for prob 6 months of his life and the rest he was living with other families doing the job that she's supposed to do as a mother... I don't even know how she supports her habit she doesn't have a job or a car her mommy drives her around and she's 36 years old like come on grow up already, you need to put in effort to see your son were not gunna just hand him to you.. didn't even say thank you to me for careing for her son.

No matter how bad in life I was doing I would never give up my rights. If she gets her life together that would make it harder for her to get her rights back. As long as the child is safe happy and healthy that’s all that should matter. I couldn’t imagine taking rights away from a mother regardless of where she’s at in life. I was going through a bad time and so many people here told me to give up my rights that’s fucked up.

File for abandonment depends on state tho then your hubby could adopt

I feel the same! My step kids "mother" is a pos. Never wanted anything to do with them until i came into the picture. They live with their Dad and i. They also call me mommy.

File for neglect