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Мама сына (1 год)

Saw this on another group.. I had third degree with my only child. How abt u ladies? I wish u could poll theses things…

Saw this on another group..

I had third degree with my only child.

How abt u ladies?

I wish u could poll theses things on here

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kimberly_preemie-mom

Kimberly

Мама троих детей

I don’t know how much I tore with my first, all I know is it hurt really bad and getting the stitches really hurt!

My second was a c section.

My third was 4 days ago and I got a vbac and didn’t tear. It was amazing. Lol.

joyfulmom

Jenny

Мама сына (1 год)

Girl I didn’t feel when he gave me the stitches but man I felt that big ass needle prick right before my son came out. Lordddd I can’t imagine how bad that would feel without a epidural.. and needles don’t bother me ever but that one.. ekkkkkk.

joyfulmom

Jenny

Мама сына (1 год)

C sections make me nervous.. and awww that’s amazing congrats!! 🎊 and yay!!!!

peacefulmom17

Gdjjdkd

I had third degree and it was painful I could’t seat for long I was in pain 4 months after it was really slow recovery and I hAve second degree with my second it was painful but easier.

joyfulmom

Jenny

Мама сына (1 год)

Same.. going to the bathroom was the worse part for me.. I used the water bottle for along along time.. and healing was slow for me also.. I was so worried my vagina was gonna look like Frank stein lol honestly still can see the stitches marks when I look 😒 my fiancé says he doesn’t.. lol

joyfulmom

Jenny

Мама сына (1 год)

Personally find it kind of interesting how u can tear the first time and yet have another without tearing..

thank god. I’m hoping for no tear with my future child lol

Bless u ladies!!! ☺️

prettymom3

Ameerah

Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего

2nd degree & left labial tear with first(son). Daughter no tears

mamaxofxtwo

*****

Ouch that look so painful I didn’t tear but I got an episiotomy

mommaofjandm

ᗪ

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (7 нед.)

2nd for me and ew and ouch Lol

bunsinmyoven

BunsInMyOven

Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего

I had second degree and an episiotomy w my first. A minor tear with my second

itsamemario

MamaToboys

What’s an episiotomy considered ?

joyfulmom

Jenny

Мама сына (1 год)

that actually doesn’t sound that bad. For me with the 3rd degree the healing seemed slow and just lots of pressure.. i heal slow though, and everyone is different but I feel like it might be better to have a episiotomy then tear otherwise why cut.. idk 🤷‍♀️

itsamemario

MamaToboys

i don’t know what i had with my other kids but i guess each person is diff n so is their healing

joyfulmom

Jenny

Мама сына (1 год)

definitely agree!

mamabear008

Beate

Мама троих детей

1st degree only with my first the twins came out fine..

joyfulmom

Jenny

Мама сына (1 год)

Awww! No meds, u go girl! That’s sweet though, I won’t lie I cried like a baby once my son was on chest. That yr was the hardest yr for me and it all just went away with that beautiful moment 💙

I can’t imagine no meds though. I was induced and once I could feel the contractions at 5cm every min it was rough

mamabear008

Beate

Мама троих детей

lol well I went into labor around 7:30 and got to the hospital by 8:45 and by then I was already 9cm so it was nothing from them to do.

joyfulmom

Jenny

Мама сына (1 год)

oh man that’s crazy.. ur a champ!!

mariapb

Maria

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (31 нед.)

I had a small internal tear that needed a couple of stitches and a labial graze. Reading this makes me want to clench my legs and keep this baby in forever. 😫

bunsinmyoven

BunsInMyOven

Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего

🤣 I’m still happy to push this baby out sooner than later now

mariapb

Maria

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (31 нед.)

I’ll cross my fingers that this post hasn’t jinxed you. 😂

bunsinmyoven

BunsInMyOven

Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего

bless you 🤣🤣🤣

lucky18

N👼🏾💙A💕👧🏾A💕👧🏾

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

I had first degree. Omg never knew that's what the other looked like. I can't imagine what's its look to poop after a 4th degree

joyfulmom

Jenny

Мама сына (1 год)

Yea right, I would worry abt infection way more. I had 3rd and the pressure to goo number #2 sucked. Stool softeners are amazing

kes253

katlyn

Мама дочки (4 года)

I wasn’t torn but they cut me all the way

joyfulmom

Jenny

Мама сына (1 год)

wow!! And she’s ok, right? That is a lot going on and I definitely get that. I was induced also..

my issue was I just wouldn’t dilate, turns out my water was broken for 3/4 days before my doctor appointment n sent me to hospital bc my son blocked it. I didn’t feel any contractions till I finally hit 4cm after being induced for 2 days. I was abt to have a c section in the morning.. but the contractions halfway through the day hit me! Man that was bad! Every min straight back and butt pain like hell! I didn’t feel much in my stomach.

I wish I could compare induced to natural labor.. but hopefully in the future!

kes253

katlyn

Мама дочки (4 года)

Oh dang ! That’s crazy ! I’m hoping my epidural works this time around lol and yes ma’am she was fine right after that got her to breathe and she’s great now , healthy happy pre schooler 🥰

joyfulmom

Jenny

Мама сына (1 год)

awww yay! That’s amazing! Very happy to hear that! And yes I hope it works for u also! I can’t imagine natural off the experience I’ve had.

bunsinmyoven

BunsInMyOven

Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего

Why?!😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩

bunsinmyoven

BunsInMyOven

Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего

@joyfulmom, oh no I know 🤣 I’m just clenching my vagina thinking about whether or not I will tear 😰😂

mariapb

Maria

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (31 нед.)

😂😂 my thoughts exactly.

joyfulmom

Jenny

Мама сына (1 год)

awww oh I’m sorry, I would too if I was expecting rn lol

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