
Saw this on another group..
I had third degree with my only child.
How abt u ladies?
I wish u could poll theses things on here
Girl I didn’t feel when he gave me the stitches but man I felt that big ass needle prick right before my son came out. Lordddd I can’t imagine how bad that would feel without a epidural.. and needles don’t bother me ever but that one.. ekkkkkk.
C sections make me nervous.. and awww that’s amazing congrats!! 🎊 and yay!!!!
I had third degree and it was painful I could’t seat for long I was in pain 4 months after it was really slow recovery and I hAve second degree with my second it was painful but easier.
Same.. going to the bathroom was the worse part for me.. I used the water bottle for along along time.. and healing was slow for me also.. I was so worried my vagina was gonna look like Frank stein lol honestly still can see the stitches marks when I look 😒 my fiancé says he doesn’t.. lol
Personally find it kind of interesting how u can tear the first time and yet have another without tearing..
thank god. I’m hoping for no tear with my future child lol
Bless u ladies!!! ☺️
2nd degree & left labial tear with first(son). Daughter no tears
I had second degree and an episiotomy w my first. A minor tear with my second
@itsamemario, that actually doesn’t sound that bad. For me with the 3rd degree the healing seemed slow and just lots of pressure.. i heal slow though, and everyone is different but I feel like it might be better to have a episiotomy then tear otherwise why cut.. idk 🤷♀️
@joyfulmom, i don’t know what i had with my other kids but i guess each person is diff n so is their healing
@mamabear008, Awww! No meds, u go girl! That’s sweet though, I won’t lie I cried like a baby once my son was on chest. That yr was the hardest yr for me and it all just went away with that beautiful moment 💙
I can’t imagine no meds though. I was induced and once I could feel the contractions at 5cm every min it was rough
@joyfulmom, lol well I went into labor around 7:30 and got to the hospital by 8:45 and by then I was already 9cm so it was nothing from them to do.
I had a small internal tear that needed a couple of stitches and a labial graze. Reading this makes me want to clench my legs and keep this baby in forever. 😫
🤣 I’m still happy to push this baby out sooner than later now
@bunsinmyoven, I’ll cross my fingers that this post hasn’t jinxed you. 😂
I had first degree. Omg never knew that's what the other looked like. I can't imagine what's its look to poop after a 4th degree
Yea right, I would worry abt infection way more. I had 3rd and the pressure to goo number #2 sucked. Stool softeners are amazing
@kes253, wow!! And she’s ok, right? That is a lot going on and I definitely get that. I was induced also..
my issue was I just wouldn’t dilate, turns out my water was broken for 3/4 days before my doctor appointment n sent me to hospital bc my son blocked it. I didn’t feel any contractions till I finally hit 4cm after being induced for 2 days. I was abt to have a c section in the morning.. but the contractions halfway through the day hit me! Man that was bad! Every min straight back and butt pain like hell! I didn’t feel much in my stomach.
I wish I could compare induced to natural labor.. but hopefully in the future!
@joyfulmom, Oh dang ! That’s crazy ! I’m hoping my epidural works this time around lol and yes ma’am she was fine right after that got her to breathe and she’s great now , healthy happy pre schooler 🥰
@kes253, awww yay! That’s amazing! Very happy to hear that! And yes I hope it works for u also! I can’t imagine natural off the experience I’ve had.
@joyfulmom, oh no I know 🤣 I’m just clenching my vagina thinking about whether or not I will tear 😰😂
@bunsinmyoven, awww oh I’m sorry, I would too if I was expecting rn lol
Devochki,u kogo kakoe xobbi? Moe xobbi pet i zapisivat pesni😀a u vas?
How old were u when u had your first kid & how old will u be with the last born?? I was 24... I will be 33 when this little flower blooms!
Devocki u mena pristup xorowo cto bila u mami.Sudoroqi noq bili,yazik zakativalsa i mena traslo.Ot ceqo mojet bit takoe?
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...

u kogo geneticeski a u kogo eko mami bliznecov i dvoynawek ?)))
I don’t know how much I tore with my first, all I know is it hurt really bad and getting the stitches really hurt!
My second was a c section.
My third was 4 days ago and I got a vbac and didn’t tear. It was amazing. Lol.