Saw this on another group..
I had third degree with my only child.
How abt u ladies?
I wish u could poll theses things on here
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Girl I didn’t feel when he gave me the stitches but man I felt that big ass needle prick right before my son came out. Lordddd I can’t imagine how bad that would feel without a epidural.. and needles don’t bother me ever but that one.. ekkkkkk.
C sections make me nervous.. and awww that’s amazing congrats!! 🎊 and yay!!!!
I had third degree and it was painful I could’t seat for long I was in pain 4 months after it was really slow recovery and I hAve second degree with my second it was painful but easier.
Same.. going to the bathroom was the worse part for me.. I used the water bottle for along along time.. and healing was slow for me also.. I was so worried my vagina was gonna look like Frank stein lol honestly still can see the stitches marks when I look 😒 my fiancé says he doesn’t.. lol
Personally find it kind of interesting how u can tear the first time and yet have another without tearing..
thank god. I’m hoping for no tear with my future child lol
Bless u ladies!!! ☺️
2nd degree & left labial tear with first(son). Daughter no tears
I had second degree and an episiotomy w my first. A minor tear with my second
@itsamemario, that actually doesn’t sound that bad. For me with the 3rd degree the healing seemed slow and just lots of pressure.. i heal slow though, and everyone is different but I feel like it might be better to have a episiotomy then tear otherwise why cut.. idk 🤷♀️
@joyfulmom, i don’t know what i had with my other kids but i guess each person is diff n so is their healing
@mamabear008, Awww! No meds, u go girl! That’s sweet though, I won’t lie I cried like a baby once my son was on chest. That yr was the hardest yr for me and it all just went away with that beautiful moment 💙
I can’t imagine no meds though. I was induced and once I could feel the contractions at 5cm every min it was rough
@joyfulmom, lol well I went into labor around 7:30 and got to the hospital by 8:45 and by then I was already 9cm so it was nothing from them to do.
I had a small internal tear that needed a couple of stitches and a labial graze. Reading this makes me want to clench my legs and keep this baby in forever. 😫
🤣 I’m still happy to push this baby out sooner than later now
@bunsinmyoven, I’ll cross my fingers that this post hasn’t jinxed you. 😂
I had first degree. Omg never knew that's what the other looked like. I can't imagine what's its look to poop after a 4th degree
Yea right, I would worry abt infection way more. I had 3rd and the pressure to goo number #2 sucked. Stool softeners are amazing
@kes253, wow!! And she’s ok, right? That is a lot going on and I definitely get that. I was induced also..
my issue was I just wouldn’t dilate, turns out my water was broken for 3/4 days before my doctor appointment n sent me to hospital bc my son blocked it. I didn’t feel any contractions till I finally hit 4cm after being induced for 2 days. I was abt to have a c section in the morning.. but the contractions halfway through the day hit me! Man that was bad! Every min straight back and butt pain like hell! I didn’t feel much in my stomach.
I wish I could compare induced to natural labor.. but hopefully in the future!
@joyfulmom, Oh dang ! That’s crazy ! I’m hoping my epidural works this time around lol and yes ma’am she was fine right after that got her to breathe and she’s great now , healthy happy pre schooler 🥰
@kes253, awww yay! That’s amazing! Very happy to hear that! And yes I hope it works for u also! I can’t imagine natural off the experience I’ve had.
@joyfulmom, oh no I know 🤣 I’m just clenching my vagina thinking about whether or not I will tear 😰😂
@bunsinmyoven, awww oh I’m sorry, I would too if I was expecting rn lol
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
I don’t know how much I tore with my first, all I know is it hurt really bad and getting the stitches really hurt!
My second was a c section.
My third was 4 days ago and I got a vbac and didn’t tear. It was amazing. Lol.