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Rant: I don’t understand why everyone thinks it’s okay to weigh in and give an UNWANTED opinion of the baby to be’s…

Rant:

I don’t understand why everyone thinks it’s okay to weigh in and give an UNWANTED opinion of the baby to be’s name. News flash! The baby isn’t coming out of YOUR VAGINA. So stfu 🤬

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onthegomomma

Emily

Мама дочки (3 года)

I named my daughter Ava. And everyone intervened with what ti name her they told me thats an old name. My sister named my nephew Elias which is a Spanish name. It's different, but I love it. Like you said it's coming out of your vagina. You have the rights to name the baby what you please. ❤

cantdeletebutimgone

cantdeletebutimgone

I don't understand why they would make fun of that name. That's a really cute name it's different and unique on top of it but I don't think it's something the child would be made fun of for. I originally wanted to name my daughter a different and unique name but my father and I had to come to an agreement he didn't like the name I had.

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onthegomomma

Emily

Мама дочки (3 года)

I named my daughter Ava. And everyone intervened with what ti name her they told me thats an old name. My sister named my nephew Elias which is a Spanish name. It's different, but I love it. Like you said it's coming out of your vagina. You have the rights to name the baby what you please. ❤

imsupermomok

Ava

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Darn...I just made a post asking about the opinion on a baby name lol

sarasmilesatyou

Sara

I mean if you want other people’s opinion. But my family just kept giving me negative opinions I didn’t ask for..

kush_queen420

Your Worst Nightmare 😘

Just be sure to cut there ass out when u have the baby so u don’t have to deal with that stress of ignorance at the hospital

householdceo

Kristen

Мама троих детей

Way I see it if it's yours name it what you want. Who cares about everyone else and what they think.

hotmessexpress

Just Me

Мама четверых детей

People are so rude & don't know how to follow the golden rule! I LOVE the name, don't even worry about it! No matter what the subject everyone has to tell you what they think you should do as a parent. You'll never be able to do anything right according to other people's standards. They be like..."Omg I can't believe you're not breastfeeding.", "How dare she breastfeed in public, that's so gross.", "Isn't he too old to be breastfeeding? When are you going to give him some real food?", "Discipline your child, they need a good spanking.", "I can't believe you spank your child, that's so terrible.", "How can you poison your child with vaccinations?", "You don't vaccinate your child? That's so irresponsible!". The list goes on and on and on. Like you said, that baby isn't coming out of their vagina, therefore their opinion doesn't matter. If I don't like a name I keep my mouth shut. 🤷‍♀️ Grow some thick skin, stand up for yourself & let it roll off your back. If they can't be respectful show them the door.

bunsinmyoven

BunsInMyOven

Lol this is why I never share names

hotmessexpress

Just Me

Мама четверых детей

I used to wonder why some people were so secretive about their baby name. Now I know why.

amysbabies

Amy O.

Мама двоих (младенец)

As long as its not Hitler, Satan, @sshole, or Lucifer, my lips are sealed 😂.

amines_angel

Ashley

Lucifer was the devil's angel name, I dont see a problem With that one

mommy1991

rashel

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (25 нед.)

I named my daughter Willow and everyone said they would call her "willy" and honestly I think you could take any name and twist it if you wanted too so I really wouldn't worry about it.

momof5brats

Lydia Duran

Многодетная мама (5 детей)

When I told my family about naming my son Keenan they tried stopping me from doing it saying it sounds like Kermit. I still named him Keenan and he loves his name

momof5brats

Lydia Duran

Многодетная мама (5 детей)

@sarasmilesatyou, thank you and I love the name you picked. I have a cousin with the same name

sarasmilesatyou

Sara

Thank you so much 💖 I really hope that I don’t get discouraged and change it because my husband is starting to get discouraged...and idk. I just wish my family would keep their opinions to theirselves.

momof5brats

Lydia Duran

Многодетная мама (5 детей)

don’t let them do to you. If you and your husband like the name use it. You are the parents not them

tiredasamother

Alison

Kids are a lot more brutal than making fun of names these days tbh. It's really not a bad name at all or something to make fun of. People may see it and call him Eli

sarasmilesatyou

Sara

Right??? And there’s nothing wrong with that! Eli is common. I just wish my family was supportive..

tiredasamother

Alison

just don't talk to them about it because it's not a debate and you know how they'll be with it. I got a million "oh you still have time to think of a different name" "are you sure?" "thats a boy's name though" Didn't change our minds🤷🏽‍♀️ Even the old lady receptionist at the hospital had to throw her two cents in🙄

sarasmilesatyou

Sara

that’s such BS. I wish people would just accept the name we choose for our children. It’s hard to talk to my family sometimes. They just tease and tease and it sucks because I’m over it. But when I get mad then they tease over how “sensitive” I am.

cantdeletebutimgone

cantdeletebutimgone

I don't understand why they would make fun of that name. That's a really cute name it's different and unique on top of it but I don't think it's something the child would be made fun of for. I originally wanted to name my daughter a different and unique name but my father and I had to come to an agreement he didn't like the name I had.

mommaofjandm

Exactly! 😂 I’ve already had family try to change my mind on the names we’re set on.

bridgett727

loulou3

Мама троих детей

Can I b nosey Nd ask wats the name

sarasmilesatyou

Sara

i really appreciate it. 💖 Stupid pregnancy hormones. I cried 7 times over this. I’m just so angry and hurt.

bridgett727

loulou3

Мама троих детей

some people r insensitive and don’t remember how the hormones do u during pregnancy but boo them 😂

sarasmilesatyou

Sara

thank you 💖 I feel a little better