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RoseMom
RoseMom
Мама двоих (младенец)

So there’s this debate going on, on fb on a mom group. We agree that children should know their…

So there’s this debate going on, on fb on a mom group. We agree that children should know their private parts by their name. But they’re debating (and it’s heated for no reason 🤷🏽‍♀️) because technically the vagina is the interior and the Vulva is the outside so some moms are saying they should be taught to say vulva since that’s what the outside is called, they think kids shouldn’t be taught to say vagina. What are you thoughts?

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icebergahead

Icebergahead

Мама сына (8 лет)

I think keep it simple for kids. You will always have some over the top debate on fb anyway.

(It reminded me of this movie as well)

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brownsugarluv

A J

Love this movie 🤣

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brownsugarluv

A J

We just say vagina unless they need to say vulva specifically.

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rosemom

RoseMom

Мама двоих (младенец)

Right!

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anicole3285

Amanda

Мама троих детей

I think by their sctual name too

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squishymommy1

squishymommy1

My daughter knows the difference. We refer to it generally as vagina.

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rosemom

RoseMom

Мама двоих (младенец)

That’s what I thought I mean yes technically it is vulva from the outside but we don’t hear females say “I have a vulva”

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anicole3285

Amanda

Мама троих детей

I just actually read it all and thats ridiculous. Call it a vagina. Want to be technical, they'll learn it eventually

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rosemom

RoseMom

Мама двоих (младенец)

Yea, either way vulva or vagina if a little girl says someone touched her vulva her mom will know what she means.

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rosemom

RoseMom

Мама двоих (младенец)

Did you say you saw the post?

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anicole3285

Amanda

Мама троих детей

ook

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squishymommy1

squishymommy1

The whole “call it by it’s name” is to prevent or help to prevent child abuse. Calling a vagina “cookie” to your kid...if something AWFUL happened. Nobody is going to know what she’s talking about with “cookie”. Not a single person is going to mistake what a vagina is if the child means her labial folds instead 🤦🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

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rosemom

RoseMom

Мама двоих (младенец)

Agree! They were just debating on vulva or vagina

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brownsugarluv

A J

My mom used cookie 🤦🏽‍♀️

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squishymommy1

squishymommy1

I think it’s an unreasonable distinction to expect little kids to differentiate between anyways. I assume they are talking small children here. “These flaps here? Vulva. The inside your hole here? Vagina”.

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rosemom

RoseMom

Мама двоих (младенец)

You introduce to them these technical terms when they’re able to see the difference. Small children as long as they know that’s their vagina.

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callatelaboca

callatelaboca

are these seriously what people argue about? lol Oh my, but I agree with @squishymommy1 on using the term vagina or vulva either way we're going to know what it meant over the horrible term "cookie"

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rosemom

RoseMom

Мама двоих (младенец)

@itsmely, lol I joined this mom group yesterday it hasn’t even been a day and I went on fb for the first time today and saw this, removed myself from that group lol keep your negativity lol

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callatelaboca

callatelaboca

Next time put that meme so the moms know then slowly exit

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rosemom

RoseMom

Мама двоих (младенец)

@itsmely, should have known before I deleted myself from the group 😆

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icebergahead

Icebergahead

Мама сына (8 лет)

I think keep it simple for kids. You will always have some over the top debate on fb anyway.

(It reminded me of this movie as well)

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brownsugarluv

A J

Love this movie 🤣

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del_1569898359_seacabo

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I have always thought teaching little kids vagina is a little premeditated. My daughter knows what her vulva is

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brownsugarluv

A J

We just say vagina unless they need to say vulva specifically.

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rosemom

RoseMom

Мама двоих (младенец)

Right!

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