ADVICE PLEASE 🤗🤗MY RANT: 😒😒😒😒

ADVICE PLEASE 🤗🤗MY RANT: 😒😒😒😒

So my mil calls me talking about I haven't visited her in a month and that I shouldn't be mad at her. The last time I visited (day after I got out the hospital for chest problems) my SO mom and sister cursed him out and acted a complete fool because he wouldn't give them any more money. They were saying that I changed him but fail to realize he has his own bills and family now that he has to take care of. When they ask for money they want $200 or more. Then the next week will be asking for more money. It's been times when he would drain his account to help them. I just can't stand a person that you can always say yes to but when you say no they they act like you haven't ever done anything for them. They even said they hope he loses his job and that they wouldnt be getting our daughter the carseat stroller that they volunteered to get as a gift.(I know they were going to ask him to give them the money for it so technically he still was going to buy it)I'm trying to have a safe healthy pregnancy so I haven't been conversing or visiting them. I feel like they are toxic, but I do know that is always going to be his family and our daughters family. Should I go visit this weekend or continue staying away?