Just had my daughter yesterday 9/3 and I couldn’t be more in love with her 💕 my vagina on the other hand is currently very sad lol I had second degree tears and sitting up/ walking is so painful. I’ve been able to pee on my own but I need some advice on how to help. I’ve been using dermaplast, ice pack pads, and the water bottle to help clean. I wasn’t sure if there was anything else I could be doing
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Congrats. Hope you heal soon and fast. Witch hazel and aloe frozen pads help, keep using the dermaplast and peri bottle. The peri bottle was a lifesaver for me after I had my son.
Congrats on ur baby. What ppl say those witch hazel and aloe pads frozen were a life saver for me. Hope ur dr. Stitch u up good. I had to have surgery Friday cuz soppostly I had a polyp and when he cut me up again it was tissue not a polyp. I'm in so much pain again like if I had another baby and wasnt ready with my padsicle. Also if ur in a lot of pain take ur pain meds just on those days u cant take the pain. Hope u start to feel better.
You're covering your bases. It is rough for a few days but will ease up soon. I saved my water bottle with the baby stuff, it was literally my best friend. :) congratulations!!!
I had a 3rd degree and witch hazel and aloe on a pad frozen when ur home is everything. Ik sounds kinda weird but Good for healing and helps wit any itching when ur stitches start to heal. And just keep using the water bottle when u go to the bathroom helps a lot if there is any pressure.
The water bottle is ur best friend .. wich hazel pads and that hospital spray for burn cuts tears and itching was my best friend to help heal my stitches .. but I had an episiotomy once they saw that her head would tear my vagina they jst snipped me so it was 100x better than tearing .!
Congrats on your new baby ❤️❤️ I really hope you feel better! I promise the pain won’t last forever ❤️
Have y’all ladies heard of VBAC? I’ve been doing my research and my doctor had said I would be able to deliver my baby vaginally since I had my 1st vaginally and my son with an emergency c section. Has anyone had one and succeeded?
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. ...
I apologise for my last post. It was done in anger. I have had a lot to deal with over the past few months that I’ve kept to myself. Stuff that has left me broken and crying myself to sleep. I pushed it aside to help someone else with their problems and I have been walked all over and made out to be a bad person and a liar. I’ve had everything thrown back in my face. When it’s too much, it’s too much.
So I had my baby at 12:46am but I’m asking for prayers or any good vibes sent my baby & my way. I had to have an emergency csection (never had one before either so still freaking out that I had one) because my placenta abrupted & now they transferred my baby to another hospital to give him care that this hospital doesn’t provide since he can not breathe on his own and he is going to be getting blood transfusions as well & they are saying it can go either way for my baby and I’m literally heartbr...
Stool softeners for sure and ibuprofen helped a lot. I had 2nd degree tearing with my first. I found going from laying down to sitting up hurt a lot so I mostly sat on soft pillows and always stayed in a sitting position. And as much as it hurt take short walks even if its just 1 lap around your room.