Your loyalty is to your friend, not him

Don’t tell her she’ll end up blaming you, just ignore him.

I would not respond. Just delete the msg as if you never saw it .

Yup I’d tell her and not reply to him.

I wouldn’t even question it if my friend’s bf was crossing boundaries. And thinking he can get you to disrespect her too

Yes. You're not going to have a friend anymore if you don't. She will find out. We always do. 💅🏻