Do you ask your spouse for permission to do things like going somewhere, spending money etc or do…
Do you ask your spouse for permission to do things like going somewhere, spending money etc or do you casually run it by them or do you just tell them afterwards?
Rubiaxo·
Nope. If I’m going anywhere, I just let him know that I left and where I’m going(just in case if anything happens) and he does the same
Blue IsMyColor·
Мама троих детей
Only if I’m planning on spending a lot of money on something.
M H K S·
It just depends; I mean if I leave, he needs to know I'm leaving, I always tell him where, and he tells me, same goes with money, it's just common courtesy for us.
🌸GoodVibeTribe🌸·
Not really permission, more of like how do they feel about it. We both do it. He asks me if I care if he goes somewhere and it’s not because he needs my permission because if he wants to go then he’s gonna go regardless, but it’s more to see if I needed him home or had a plan already for us not asking because he needs me to say yes or no. If I tell him “no” its never no.. it’s more of “I’d rather you not if you don’t mind because....” and then my explanation. But never just a hard solid no.
🌸GoodVibeTribe🌸··
Money wise we also don’t spend money without letting each other know. He sometimes buys things and tells me afterwards but he works hard so I’m not gonna tell him where he can spend the money he earns lol. And for me, he forces me to buy shit cause I don’t want to most of the time so we never issues with me asking for money or asking if I can buy something. Anything I ask to buy is stuff I honestly need and he never tells me no for that stuff. Only times he’s said no to me is when I’m being ridiculous with my purse addiction and buying dumb shit I’ll never even use cause I’m irresponsible asf 😂😂😂
Uhhhh·
We tell each other out of courtesy but we don't need permission
Steph·
I don’t ask permission but I will say, I am running out to the store etc and he does the same. Money wise, if it’s a big purchase we will discuss it but if it’s food shopping, everyday items then no I don’t make a big deal about it.
Nicola·
No not really I just drop *hints* to what I wanna get. I don’t tell him where I’m going cause I’m either in my town or down my moms lol. X
squishymommy1·
We don’t need permission and we tell each other where we are going out of courtesy unless one of us is out of town. Like, I don’t expect him to tell me every little thing he does when he’s on a business trip or if I go visit my sisters or something. We don’t generally tell each other when we buy things either.
nobody important ·
I only spend when i need something. We limit our spending. I get to do my nails when i want too. I just let hubby know where i am at for safety if something happens.
Kristen ·
Мама троих детей
I don't ask permission but I let him know what I'm doing. When it comes to money I spend it on whatever I want too.
Kaylee Brewer·
I try to let him know most of the time.
Ms Jackson If Ya Nasty ·
Ask?! No he is not my father lol but I get what u mean. I just tell him I’m leaving as I’m walking out the door 😂😂 “bye make sure u change the baby soon”