Somebody please tell me how you walk away from the person you love and actually be okay? I want to do what’s best for not only me but my daughter too and I just don’t know if it’s worth it to stay any longer 😭
I walked away from him once before about 3 years ago and lost my shit for a little bit and then I was doing really good and he came back I just don’t want to hurt that bad again I guess 😔
@kotasmomy2317, it doesn’t sound healthy you have a daughter let it go. You going to mess around a miss your blessing dealing with that type of relationship.
@kotasmomy2317 I was in a deep depression for a few months. I get it. I got home one day to the house we bought and renovated together and he changed the locks on me and made me leave because "he wasn't feeling it anymore". Life sucks. 🤷 I moved, got a better job, relied on my support system and started over. I learned the hard way and now everything my husband and I own is in my name. You take the loss and learn a lesson. Be practical about it. He isn't good for you or your daughter.
Ask yourself these questions. Is this the type of relationship I want to be a example to my daughter ? Is this the type of man I want my daughter with when she gets older? Do I want my daughter to see that I settled for someone that mistreats me? If you answer no to all those questions it’s time to go. You have to remember you are the example to your child.
That’s the hard part cause on our good days he’s great but we have more bad dahs than good but I can’t show her that it’s okay to just wait around for the good days
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Can some one please tell me i was reading the pregnancy tracker it says second week you release a egg am i reading this wright in thats were sperm in egg meet!!!
I guess sharing my personal info on here means having it used against me in a personal disagreement yes I was raped and no you have no right to use my daughter against me as a personal jab
You won't be ok. And that's ok. You walk away because you don't want to be the person you are when you are with them. You walk away to do better for yourself. Not everyone is there forever. Some people are in our lives to teach us lessons. Just ask my ex-fiance. He let his best man hit me with a truck and crack my ribs. And treated me like trash just like his mama did. I'm still bitter about it but life moves on and I have an amazing family now