It can be scary and overwhelming. But you can do it. Take it one day at a time and you will eventually find your groove as a mommy of 2. Seek out as much help as you can though
I’m just stressed about trying to juggle two kids, a job, a home life, and even things as simple as going to the store with two kids. Where are we going to put everything? It will be me my bf my son and daughter all in one room. And we just don’t have anymore room.
My son is quite the handful as is, plus i think he’s getting worse as I get closer to giving birth.
Girl, I 1000% understand where you're coming from. I just have the one and I am SO BEYOND ok with that. He just turned 4 though and my husband wants at least one more and I just.....idk, STRESS TF out! I honestly never wanted ANY kids so the thought of having a brood makes me lose my breath and my heart beat fast. I just don't think I can! I just don't think I'm mentally in a place for that! I feel like if I'm this overwhelmed and stressed with work, house, hubby and ONE kid.... there's NO freakin way! I KNOW how horrible all of that sounds but it's the truth. I LOVE my child, that is not what I'm saying. I just GET where you're comin from girl!
I’m glad you understand. I’ve always wanted to be a mom. But being a mom of one is more than enough for me. They say it gets easier as time goes, but not if you keep adding every few years.
RIGHT?? Doesn't that make ya just kinda start back at square one? I'm sorry girl, I know I'm NOT helpin your anxieties anout the situation any but I just want ya to know that I'm PRETTY sure what you're feelin and goin through is normal. If it's not....well then, my ass is RIGHT there with you mama! Lol! Your a mama though, which means your a fucking WARRIOR and WILL find a way girl. In the meantime I'll be here when ya need to cry, scream, bitch...WHATEVER! We'll figure it out one damn day at a time if we gotta!
pamelawife134·
Well...youre pretty far into it so it's going to be over soon. How do you feel about having another baby?
Kaylee Brewer··
Feeling overwhelmed and stressed out about it. I was good with just one.
pamelawife134··
It can be scary and overwhelming. But you can do it. Take it one day at a time and you will eventually find your groove as a mommy of 2. Seek out as much help as you can though
Kaylee Brewer·
Some days I’m like ready for the day she comes most others I want her to stay in there as long as possible.
Kaylee Brewer··
@pamelawife134, that is true.
Amy O.··
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like what are you stressing about? Maybe it’s something some of us with 2+ can help with?
Kaylee Brewer··
I’m just stressed about trying to juggle two kids, a job, a home life, and even things as simple as going to the store with two kids. Where are we going to put everything? It will be me my bf my son and daughter all in one room. And we just don’t have anymore room.
My son is quite the handful as is, plus i think he’s getting worse as I get closer to giving birth.
Linden·
Girl, I 1000% understand where you're coming from. I just have the one and I am SO BEYOND ok with that. He just turned 4 though and my husband wants at least one more and I just.....idk, STRESS TF out! I honestly never wanted ANY kids so the thought of having a brood makes me lose my breath and my heart beat fast. I just don't think I can! I just don't think I'm mentally in a place for that! I feel like if I'm this overwhelmed and stressed with work, house, hubby and ONE kid.... there's NO freakin way! I KNOW how horrible all of that sounds but it's the truth. I LOVE my child, that is not what I'm saying. I just GET where you're comin from girl!
Kaylee Brewer··
I’m glad you understand. I’ve always wanted to be a mom. But being a mom of one is more than enough for me. They say it gets easier as time goes, but not if you keep adding every few years.
Linden··
RIGHT?? Doesn't that make ya just kinda start back at square one? I'm sorry girl, I know I'm NOT helpin your anxieties anout the situation any but I just want ya to know that I'm PRETTY sure what you're feelin and goin through is normal. If it's not....well then, my ass is RIGHT there with you mama! Lol! Your a mama though, which means your a fucking WARRIOR and WILL find a way girl. In the meantime I'll be here when ya need to cry, scream, bitch...WHATEVER! We'll figure it out one damn day at a time if we gotta!
Kaylee Brewer··
@leonardsquared, I’m just glad we can relate. Thank you!