ik it’s been a min but I have a question for all you ladies with boyfriends, fiancés, & husbands .…
ik it’s been a min but I have a question for all you ladies with boyfriends, fiancés, & husbands . when you are having sex and thy finish do they help you finish or are they just done ? because usually it’s always him who finishes and that’s it . ive been with my boyfriend over a yr and I can count on both hands how many times I’ve finished with him but he can’t even count the number of times I’ve helped him finish ☹️ am I the problem or like what I just need some advice atm !!!!
PotTmouthed&StirredUp👊·
Mine Dont until I do.
squishymommy1·
I cum first
Kristen ·
Мама троих детей
He does me first. He always makes sure I get off and sense he can be quick lol he makes sure I do first
RoseMom·
Мама двоих (младенец)
most part he helps me finish, but if I’m tired and he finished then I decide we’re done and I don’t want to keep going.
Just Another Spider Riding Aussie 🕷🇦🇺·
Depends how much time we have. If it's a quickie it's usually no dice for me lol
BunsInMyOven·
The real question is... if he cares about you, why doesn’t he care if you are satisfied? He sounds very selfish. Do you communicate ab what you want??
BunsInMyOven··
@annaranee18, this isn’t stuff you should have to tip toe around and if you cannot communicate about these things, what about bigger issues in the future?
Anna··
Мама дочки-младенца
okay thank you, I’ll talk to him later today
BunsInMyOven··
hope it goes well! I’d try to make it light hearted if he is sensitive. But def pay attention to the way he reacts. I find it odd he isn’t super excited ab getting you there. That is my DHs major turn on
Anna·
Мама дочки-младенца
well I need some help then cuz all you ladies have it made lmfao !! a long while ago I talked to him about it because I enjoy getting off with him and he is very understanding and treats me like a queen but when I comes to the sheets I think he just doesn’t wanna take the time to help me finish . don’t get me wrong I like to fuck and have him finish but come on a woman has needs too . it’s takes me a lil while to cum but I take all the time in the world when I make him cum ya kno 🤦🏼♀️ arrghhh
Shy·
Bae always makes sure I get mines...yall need to have a convo asap! Let him kno what u like & how to do it, tell him that u need to be satisfied 2 (say it delicately tho... cus mens egos 🙄 lol) but nah sis u need 2 be getting yours too 💯
katlyn·
Am I the only female that can’t cum with a man ?? Lol 25 years old and never came with a man . I didn’t even have my first orgasm til I was 22. Took a bullet vibrator on my clt and porn. He always always tries but I always tell him it’s not gonna happen it just doesn’t unless I’m alone with vibrator and porn
Anna··
Мама дочки-младенца
i get that ! it’s hard for me to get off with my bf . but it happens only when he’s inside me and my clt is being stimulated . i always with our a doubt get of with my vibr and prn
katlyn··
idk what it is lol I just can’t with a guy I don’t even come close. I feel like a freak cause none of my friends have this issue 🤦🏼♀️
Paula Macias·
Мама четверых детей
You definitely need to have a talk with him. My husband always makes sure I’m satisfied. He makes sure that he is taking care of me before satisfying his needs and we’ve been together for over 13 years and till this day he takes care of me first. So have a sit down and tell him to get it together. He’s being selfish and you also have needs. What will happen is that you will get tired and completely lose interest. We are sexual beings and if you feel your not being satisfied you will start to recent him.
Melinda·
What we try to do, is he will make sure I’m close to you know. When we are fooling around, that way once we get there. We let loose, then both of have the joys of finishing. Maybe fool around a little before, with a vibrator. That way you’re so ready, by the time he gets inside you BAM!!
Uhhhh·
Well it depends on the night. Sometimes I finish first sometimes I don't. But I don't have to cum to sexually satisfied either and neither does he. So we don't quite till we're both satisfied. I usually don't need to help him 🤣