Not sure if its a joke or not but now my spirits and confidence is beyond 0 .. Beyond negative.. Baby daddy literally said to me 20 mins ago .. " guess it's safe to say if u dont loose the weight, quietly then said im gonna have to leave you ;/... I couldnt find anything to really say back since it took on number on me .. Not once thought id hear that word ... But unfortunately i did Nd now i am completely down ...
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Kidding or not, he hurt you. I hope you told him and he apologized at least?? That is not something you say to a woman less than a week after she’s given birth. 😔
What tone of voice did he had when he said that to u ?
He said it like a whisper and the look in his eyes didnt seem serious
@n.richey812, only you saw & heard what he told you . do you believe he really meant it ?
Even if he is joking, it's not funny, I would be very angry if my husband decided it would be funny to joke about my body after I just pushed a human out of my body, it is inexcusable and childish and nobody, not even your SO should even joke, let alone be judging your pp weight.I hope you can get it sorted and sit down and have a serious conversation about it. Try to be confident in yourself, you are amazing and stronger than you know ❤
Not making a excuse and i see ur point but yet i get him not use to a pregnant body and use to the pre pregnant body is a big difference..
But there is more to a relationship than just “bodies. “ Is that all he’s basing his decision on is how you look? Is that the only thing that matters most to him that he would decide to turn the world upside down and leave you for it ?
I’m still not understanding why he’s a shallow douche. He watched you grow his baby in your stomach for 9 or so months. Is he not educated in how that works? I’m just baffled at how you are making excuses. Know your worth. There’s nothing for him to “get used to” your his partner. He impregnated you and you JUST had his baby. What a dick
I understand ladies and all he is a first time dad and all this is new .. Ive told him and told him . our bodies take time to recover and heal .. We go back to our pre pregnant bodies eventually.. It's all about time.
I don’t know any decent man as a new father who would say that. It’s sad your making excuses for him. You carried and birthed his child FFS.
The fuck? You literally JUST had a baby. HIS fucking baby. He should be afuckingshamed of himself. And you should leave his pos ass. No man would ever say that to his partner.
Pretty sure he was joking around.. But jokin or not i cant handle stuff like that i am only 6 days pp and emotions are still unstable ... I just honestly dont know whay to rhink. I love him to death.. I couldnt leave him honesty.. Just got me Spinning and lost in my head now .. Walked away crying didnt want him to see . just hoping he was playing around tho .
You should be your own advocate. He has no right to make you feel like this, hoping “he was joking.” Loving him to death doesn’t excuse his mental games
My SO can be an asshole, but not once has he called me fat. Tell his ass to keep up with that bs or you'll be the one thinking about leaving him
Im really not that big tho . all i got is the bump a lil from where my uterus is going back to normal
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:
Y’all please please be careful and monitor what these babies are watching on YouTube thank god my baby didn’t understand what the thing was saying he showed me the phone and said “scary mama” I think continued to listen to what the thing was saying and I was livid and horrified it was explaining to my son how to kill the whole family while everyone was asleep
Feeling so torn right now because they said it's HCG is negative so I am so confused because at first at doctor that I am seeing in ER says it's positive and now my doctor that I just see at doctor office said that's negative?
opinions?
I told Jeff I want to leave. He said that he doesn't love me and I feel the same way about him. However when I asked him if I could keep paying my share of the bills while saving enough to leave he said if I'm going to leave I need to go now. This is what he always does. He says he doesn't want me but when I try to leave he manipulates me.
I'd laugh. I can do bad all by myself. There are plenty of guys who would LOVE to be between thunder and lightening who have more respect than he does. Think of yourself like the queen you are! You created humans! From nothing!!! There's nothing more badass than that and there are plenty of guys that think that way :)