im my bros full time care giver. he is 26 yrs old and has sever autism and had 6 brain surgeries. im his bro im 27 yrs old my names Levi.

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i have a 26 yr old autistic brother. and i and my mother let him thes things. (please make it in list format and explain…

i have a 26 yr old autistic brother. and i and my mother let him thes things. (please make it in list format and explain why).

(we make him behave in public but at our/his house we don't care what he does as long as he's not hurting himself or others).

1. running butt naked (even infront of company). if hes more comfortable that way i shud i put clothes on him? and btw we have all wood floors so pee and poop wipe up easily. (were still working potty training.)

2. scream and shout. if he can't or won't talk he screams (i only allow this in the house) all he wants.

3. throw food. if its bad i say we have a food fight.

4. drawing on EVERYTHING walls, floors, NOTHING IS OFF LIMITS. i encourage his imagination.

5. paint on us and the walls. see #4

6. junkfood everyday all day. my brother is a picky eater so if he eats anything im so happy. (i give him a multivitamin to make up for all that he lost).

7. eat with his hands. its SUPER SUPER MESSY but he loves it.

8. were mis matched clothes in public.

if that means him wearing bright green pants a pink shirt sandels and a hat to church well gess what hes wearing it.

9. haveing "messy bath's" we get them off of Pinterest sencery baths for kids.

10. sleep with me. (hes got his own room) but if he wants to sleep with me he can.

11. jump on furniture and beds. (he has a trampoline and mini trampoline in his room) its just he likes to jump on furniture 😂.

12. play in mud. ANYWHERE. sure i was late taking him to his ABA but we had a blast getting soaked. btw. he went in to his ABA dripping mud the other kids and adults looked at us like we were crazy. (ok only some did) a couple of his teachers said "will its good he's having fun.😂😂😂😂😂.

13. pee in the shower. (if i can get him to pee i will (he once peed on the floor while i was cleaning up after arts and crafts i said (in my happyist voice i could) i said "buddy wow you made a big peepee lets get you cleaned up"

14. baby talk . if he understands it better. I'll do it.

and 15. love him unconditional. he's thought me so much. ❤️

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PotTmouthed&StirredUp👊Многодетная мама (10 детей)

Do u think any of this is honestly helping him! I have 2 autistic brothers and not giving him any structure is not helping at all! Dont mean to be rude.

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PotTmouthed&StirredUp👊Многодетная мама (10 детей)

@autismbrother try to add more structure and it would be so much. Autism is not a excuse to do whatever he wants

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im my bros full time care giver. he is 26 yrs old and has sever autism and had 6 brain surgeries. im his bro im 27 yrs old my names Levi.Мама подростка

@sistersmainpiece no but i need some i have anti depressants because i can't take my bro having all of this. I know it sounds mean as hell but i can't.

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im my bros full time care giver. he is 26 yrs old and has sever autism and had 6 brain surgeries. im his bro im 27 yrs old my names Levi.Мама подростка

@pottmouthed_stirredup both.

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SistersmainpieceМама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

@autismbrother, oh goodness. You on meds for that ??

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im my bros full time care giver. he is 26 yrs old and has sever autism and had 6 brain surgeries. im his bro im 27 yrs old my names Levi.Мама подростка

@pottmouthed_stirredup good question. No he was burn with it. And yes i have schizoaffective disorder.

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im my bros full time care giver. he is 26 yrs old and has sever autism and had 6 brain surgeries. im his bro im 27 yrs old my names Levi.Мама подростка

@autismbrother i don't

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PotTmouthed&StirredUp👊Многодетная мама (10 детей)

@autismbrother do,u have any delays???? Does he have autism from the brain cancer?

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im my bros full time care giver. he is 26 yrs old and has sever autism and had 6 brain surgeries. im his bro im 27 yrs old my names Levi.Мама подростка

@sistersmainpiece i can't remember i tend not to remember that.

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im my bros full time care giver. he is 26 yrs old and has sever autism and had 6 brain surgeries. im his bro im 27 yrs old my names Levi.Мама подростка

@pottmouthed_stirredup when he was 21yrs old.

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SistersmainpieceМама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

@autismbrother, what type of brain cancer did he have ?

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PotTmouthed&StirredUp👊Многодетная мама (10 детей)

@autismbrother when was he's last,surgery?

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PotTmouthed&StirredUp👊Многодетная мама (10 детей)

@autismbrother so,he has brain cancer and autism? Or the brain cancer made him delayed?

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im my bros full time care giver. he is 26 yrs old and has sever autism and had 6 brain surgeries. im his bro im 27 yrs old my names Levi.Мама подростка

@pottmouthed_stirredup he had brain cancer. And a couple of REALLY BAD malt downs.

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PotTmouthed&StirredUp👊Многодетная мама (10 детей)

@autismbrother what did he have brain surgery's for?

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im my bros full time care giver. he is 26 yrs old and has sever autism and had 6 brain surgeries. im his bro im 27 yrs old my names Levi.Мама подростка

@pottmouthed_stirredup i know like i said we make him behave at home. I know it's a little extreme but you have to remember he also had 6 brain surgeries so our caring for him is a lot different than "regular auts".

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PotTmouthed&StirredUp👊Многодетная мама (10 детей)

@autismbrother I understand your aspect on your way. Your trying to make him as comfortable but he also needs to know those things should not be done. I'm just giving friendly advice.

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im my bros full time care giver. he is 26 yrs old and has sever autism and had 6 brain surgeries. im his bro im 27 yrs old my names Levi.Мама подростка

@autismbrother you good i don't see it as rude.

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im my bros full time care giver. he is 26 yrs old and has sever autism and had 6 brain surgeries. im his bro im 27 yrs old my names Levi.Мама подростка

He learns best through play. And yeah it is today he pooped in the toilet. All by himself and then i acted like i was going on the floor (i wasn't naked. Lol) but he touched me and pointed to the toilet and said potty. ♥♥♥♥🎗🎗🎗🎗🎗

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