So I'm potty training my 2 year old she will be 3 November 3rd. We are definitely getting the pee…

So I'm potty training my 2 year old she will be 3 November 3rd. We are definitely getting the pee part down. She pees everytime she sits on the potty, she still has some accidents in the pull up but I cant get her to go #2 in the potty. Well the past month and a half have been EXTREMELY hectic from me being in a car accident to doctors appointments, therapy, errands, her and my 1 year old are both sick they gave it to their father too. And now we got hit with another BIG life issue🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ Things have been crazy but with all this we are still making fantastic progress but I feel like a bad mom sometimes cause I feel like she should be farther along with this potty training thing then she is and I feel like it's my fault she isn't sometimes. The panties method is a no go. I have a small apartment with carpet everywhere. And an even smaller kitchen so letting her run around peeing all over the carpet isn't gonna work. So I use pull ups. I think the problem is she doesn't know how to hold her bladder long enough to get to the potty. She will pee everytime I put her on the potty but her pullup might be wet too. How often did u put your kids on the potty. Every 30 min? Hour? I have to order the portable foldable potty seat for when we are on public but I have not bought it yet. How long does it take to completely 100% potty train. Is it normal to not be potty trained all the way by 3 years old?