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Kaytlynn

Husband just got offered more pay if he will work overnights. We would leave when I get off work and not be home until…

Husband just got offered more pay if he will work overnights. We would leave when I get off work and not be home until 3am. And he would only work week days and I work weekends and have 2 week days off. So we would NEVER see eachother and I dont like that. I also have horrible anxiety at night and the few times he has been away overnight, I haven't slept. I do not like this idea at all, but he really does...the extra pay anf only having to work 4 days (12 hours.) I know it would be better for him and us (financially) but when he told me I started crying and I need to give him an answer this evening abouy how i feel and I just dont know. I feel selfish but also know if he does this, im gonna havr such a hard time.

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katelynn

katelynnМама дочки (3 года)

Let him do it. I have awful anxiety plus other things wrong. But if it will help y'all out financially then he should do it. :)

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rmreed

RachelМама двоих (младенец)

I wouldn't. We use to have to do this and I was absolutely miserable all the time. It's not worth it. When your on your death bed you don't remember how much money you had, you remember spending time with loved ones

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mychemicalshaymance

ShayМама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

If it's something that would help the family as a whole, I'd push him to do it. He'd still have a day off during the week and the time between when he wakes up and before he leaves.

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veganmermama

Kaytlynn

Yes but the hard part is those times, I wouldn't be home and/or sleeping...

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