My 3 year old has started pre-school and we’re not off to a good start there is a lot going on like the fact that my…

My 3 year old has started pre-school and we’re not off to a good start there is a lot going on like the fact that my mom, Mawmaw and her grandmother on her dads side thinks I should take her out. My mom dropped her off today and she screamed to go with my mom the part that made it bad for my mom was they let Kat come to the door screaming for her meme they didn’t do that the 3rd day of school they tried to comfort her but my grandmother has went up there since then and idk what all she said but she was not happy that my child was the only white child in the class room (I do not feel the same way she does at all to me kids don’t see color) and she says because there’s no security cameras it’s not a safe place for Kat to go to school. My mom said the teachers were not friendly today at all but I feel like she is crying and throwing a fit because she is having separateration anxiety. Did anyone else go through something similar idk what to do. I am in the process of trying to get it were my child does not stay at her great-gramothers as much because she wants to raise her difficulty than how I want to and I feel like she does not respect me as Kats mom