Has anyone filed a restraining order & filed for custody in CA? Do you know if you’re supposed to…

Has anyone filed a restraining order & filed for custody in CA? Do you know if you’re supposed to get a copy of the respondents docs? Because he had sent a family member to “serve me” last night at 11:30pm and I didn’t fully think things through.

He had me sign a paper for him stating that I’m moving out of our apartment. (Which I am) then after I signed and dated it, he handed me a copy of his response to the restraining/custody order right after and told me I got “served”

I’m starting to think that he tricked me into giving a notice of leaving my apartment. But management already knew of the situation 🤷🏻‍♀️

He violated the order last week and has court today and this family member said he needed it signed to show the judge that he wants to stay here. Is this violating his order as well!? Thanks!