Well inset up an appointment for my daughters father for depression to see if he can get on…

Well inset up an appointment for my daughters father for depression to see if he can get on anything. I even made the appointment the latest in the day because i know he wonteave work for it. Work is top priority for him. I mentioned it 3x. And even found his insurance card FOR HIM. This morning i text him because i forgot to give him his insurance card for later today. Figure he'd go straight from work. Well he's texting me like he doesn't even remember even though i mentioned it 3x and one of those times was yesturday. And wven asked what it was for and where it was. Its really frustrating. Idk if this is part of anxiety or depression but it happens SOO ofyen. Almost as if its not important to him. Even though he is constantly talking about putring himself first for once and taking care of himself and talking ablut his anxiety and depression. So it would seem this would be extremely important and on his mind. Its on my mind since i made the appointment for him and is really important to me like its more meaningful to me then him. I dont know what to do.. Im at thw end of my rope woth this. If he doesnt go all because he rather work. I try and try and try and this is the 6th appointment in a row he would be canceling. But yet hes constantly talking about it and acting like i should cater to it. Someone who constantly talks about it can go to the dr i think. He goes to counseling sometimes so i knkw he can do it. Sometimes i think he uses it as an excuse to bring up everytime someone asks him to do something as in helping out or just to bring up because of his actions. Sorry if this is insensitive but im seriously at my witts end. Im probably just getting ahead of myself but when it is constantly happens one way. Its a pattern then its kind of hard tonput faith in it and expect a different result. Im just so anxious about it