Super irritated/feeling stressed today. Been trying

for months to get my husband and my dad to get the nursery cleaned out since it’s full of heavy boxes that need to go into the attic, which will entail putting more plywood flooring up there, neither of which I can really help with at this point. All my husband says is, “don’t worry it’ll be done before the shower”. My MIL wanted to run my shower, but she works for a school district and is now swamped so getting her to respond to my questions so I can move forward on my part of helping her isn’t really happening either. I hate not being able to contribute/feeling like things are waiting until the last minute. 5 1/2 weeks until the shower, and 10 1/2 until my due date. Anyone else feel like they were at the mercy of others towards the end of their pregnancy?